Long story short me and my husband were separated in January and he left to live with his parents and he gained a lot of credit card debt because of it. When he came back a couple of months later I said it was okay for him to not pay the bills for a bit till he got his debt down. He kept promising me that he would contribute to the bills every so often and never did. In this time he never got a job, never helped around the house, and was just going to college then the gym then home. He would also buy stupid things (why do we need a $150 weighing scale) and waste his money on things instead of helping with bills. He goes to college full time but he's home at around 3pm which is enough time to get a part time job but he just comes home and sleeps. I put my life on hold so that he could do this, I dropped out of college, I work 2 jobs to make ends meet and im still poor because I have to support us. I said that it was unfair for only him to get his life in order while mine is slowly turning to just working and providing for someone else and he blames me for it and says that all of this is my fault. So am I selfish for wanting him to work and take on some sort of responsibility?
Is it selfish of me to be mad that my husband does nothing?
