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I am 28, and I have had horrid luck with women my entire life. I have never had a real girlfriend before, and I have only had sex with one girl my entire life during a weekend fling/hookup over 7 and a half years ago. She was 16; I was 20. Both virgins at the time supposedly. She didn't want anything to do with me romantically after that weekend, and she was really a stranger I drove across state lines to meet.

The thing is, I am short in height at 5'6, on the Autistic Spectrum (Aspergers), and have a lot of social deficits. I still live at home and recently lost my decently-paying job. My normally homeless friend has better luck with women than I do.

I am really wanting a woman that has never had a romantic bond with another guy before, meaning no previous boyfriends or even a first love. I don't know if I will ever find that, and I may end up alone the rest of my life. I do like younger women a lot more, but I may be too old at this point. I feel may be lucky to even find a woman that has never been married or never had kids before, which I may be stuck with single moms and divorced women at some point.

I hate to say it but as man I usually have my mind made up within 30 seconds of meeting a woman of how physically attracted I am to her.

Emotional attraction does still weigh heavily into it though. She can be hot af but if I can’t stand her personality and/or she’s has no genuine interest in me I can move on. I can also move on a lot faster nowadays vs. when I was younger.

But the issue is often come across women I find that are 5’s or 6’s. They aren’t repugnant or anything but I don’t feel any butterfly’s in my stomach either. More often than not they really like me because while I am nice to them I also don’t bend over backwards for them either. I’m just as happy to be there or not be there. Either way is fine. So it’s easy to be myself.

But as a man I find that the ugly truth is I have never found myself growing in attraction for average looking women despite some of them having excellent personalities. I really have tried to “check myself” on this. Tell myself to look deeper. Tell myself to “grow up”. Feel guilty af about it.

But if tried to force myself to date and commit to average looking yet great personality girls in the past. It always ends in disaster. I quickly lose interest in sex and find myself having less patience about their problems. And I know that’s not fair at all.

Is it possible for a man to slowly fall in love with a woman he isn’t attracted to?

I am asking this because I have an opportunity to get married to an average looking girl who is outstanding in all other ways. She’s a very hard worker, respectful, excellent personality, moderate conservative, has no vices, etc. She’s also younger (27) yet mature and independent.

Yet she has a rather unattractive face and I feel Iike complete shit saying that. She’s was born with that those facial features and has zero control over them. I keep kicking myself not to judge that but it’s hard.

Catholic priests are sworn to celibacy.

"Father Fernando Ncube allegedly married a woman and kept the relationship a secret to the world, until she felt betrayed."

In an interview she opened up:

“When I started dating him, he did not tell me that he was a priest. I later found out but couldn’t break up with him because I loved him.

I fell pregnant and we decided to get married. My family was shocked at first but accepted the relationship for my happiness.”

"I protected him and kept our marriage a secret to the extent of having conflicts with some of my family members who were not accepting us.

Our marriage was one of the ideal ones. He won everyone’s heart to the extent that even my brother blessed our union.”

But he broke her heart at his home after a party.

“We used to have petty squabbles just like any other couple but for him to try and have sex with my biological mother broke my heart.

Although he is apologising, it is hard to forget,”

“He left our room for the toilet and delayed coming back. I had to follow him to see what was going on. When I passed the room where my mother was sleeping, I saw that my mother had company. I opened the door and I saw him in bed naked,”

• He is skinny and short height 52 Kg and 5'6 only
• He is soft spoken, shy and introvert
• He has insecurities and has never had any female friends
• He feels awkward and shy around/with women and girls
• He is very hairy bodied male
• He isn't much social

Would he be able to attract a girl/woman who would be interested in being in married life with him... and is he fit enough to sustain married life, sex and raise kids in this brutal world... which demands fittest of the survival?