Search Results: what girls want from guys

Girls, If Women Say They Want a Nice Guy, Why Do So Many Ignore the Quiet Ones?

I’m not writing this to complain or ask for pity. I’m just laying out the reality, because most people have no idea what dating looks like from the perspective of a shy guy. And frankly, it’s nothing like the romantic...

Shy_Steve

Guru Age: 43

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Is he falling for me or am I wrong?

I been talking and being fwbs with this guy who’s 4 years younger he’s 25 I’m 29 and we been having sex often almost every week and there's been so many times he’s invited me to his brother’s or friend’s parties and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are we falling in love I think we might be but not sure?

been talking and being fwbs with this guy who’s 4 years younger he’s 25 I’m 29 and we been having sex often almost every week and there's been so many times he’s invited me to his brother’s or friend’s parties and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Isn’t it crazy how time helps you to get over someone you once were so crazy over?

About 9 years ago I was with my first boyfriend and I swore I was so in love. I thought we would get married, have kids and run off into the sunset 🤣. He ended up leaving me for another girl and it hurt so bad. I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you ever spend time with your girlfriends talking about sex or do you turn a casual conversation towards sex?

With us guys, from about 2nd grade onwards, we talked A LOT about sex!!! The only other things most of us are interested in is cars, guns, explosives, sports and, in later years, booze and drugs!! VERY RARELY do you...

FunkyMonkee

Master Age: 58

Is it uncommon for friends to become lovers?

This is kinda a two part question I got into an argument with a female friend and I believe she is very sheltered based on what she is saying. I told her that there are plenty of friends out there who become lovers...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why should girls and women be forced or encouraged to date their male friends?

We shouldn’t have to be forced to date the guy that’s been there for us since day one, UNLESS we had feelings for them back. If we don’t have feelings and we’re honest, you can’t get angry at us. If a boy or man rejects a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I tell my sister “no”?

So my sister is super into kpop, and I went to a concert last time because she didn’t want to go by herself. And I hated it!!! I was like one of ten guys there. And some girls behind me were talking shit on my outfit....

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know if a guy likes me or if I am just wasting my time?

I have a crush on my guy friend. We are religious so we have strict dating standards and expectations (no lusting, spending time alone unless fully dating, influences). We have known each other going on 5 years but never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I overreacting to the whole situation?

So my boyfriend and I have been together 1 year 6 months officially but known each other for 3 because of work, he's met my mom's side of the family and my friends and he's suppose to meet my dad this weekend. Things are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, would you actually like a guy to cook sweets for you?

Hey ladies, curious what you honestly think… Ever since I was a little boy, I’ve always dreamed of cooking sweets for the girl I love — whatever she asks for. I learned to bake from my grandmother growing up, and later...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can some explain to me the extent of what she said?

So I met this girl, June 17, 2023. Yes, I know, exact date, haha, but, yeah. At the time, she was dating this guy, she has a kid, but, I don't think he's the father, I was never real clear on that, because I didn't want...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys regret fumbling a girl if they had been trying to get her for a while?

Basically me and this guy at my work had been flirting for about 6/7 months. Nothing happened when i worked there, as he was my manager so i felt a bit cautious He would always ask if I was single/ how my dating life was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My friend won’t except she was in a situationship. Am I wrong for calling it like I see it?

She met this guy 11 months ago. He broke it off with her last month because she was late in meeting him. They acted like boyfriend/girlfriend but never labeled it and yet she’s still acting like it’s a breakup and calling...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls seek validation from strangers and allow these simps to like and comment on their selfies?

My girlfriend used to call me insecure for having an issue with her thousands of followers, all pervy guys liking and commenting on every pic she would post, I told her I don't want someone who's constantly entertaining...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…

We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...

LiaRaven

Influencer Age: 29

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Dating a girl who you don’t want marriage with?

So I’ve heard some gossip today from my hairdresser that my ex who had gotten with a rebound girl told his mom (we share the same hairdresser) that he “doesn’t want marriage. (Not clear if he meant with her or in general)...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he just want to satisfy his ego or does he like me? My friend just like him?

He was extremely flirty. And a few girls told me about him, even though I didn't bring it up, that he was a very flirty guy and talked to every girl last year. That's why I didn't take him seriously. Every word he said...

Anonymous

(25-29)