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this is gonna be a very polarizing question. just to rule out any false assumptions about me: i do not claim anything about you individually or your gender as a whole. i'm just neutrally stating 2 independend facts here that are statistically true and i'm asking for your judgement.

i also wanna be more precise about "cheating", cause things aren't that straight foreward actually. people always assume men just cheat more. that however isn't "generally" true. social scientific data implies that men cheat more than women within marriages. but women actually cheat more than men in all other relationship constellations.

what do you think that means? do men actually value their marriage status higher than "trust" and "loyalty" in a relationship?

and before you get ideas like "men cheating causes women to divorce, that's why women initiate divorces more": that is only partly true at best. because while the difference between male and female "extradyadic behavior" (fancy science term for cheating) in marriages is roughly 30%, roughly 70% of all divorces are initiated by women. so what do you think are the reasons?

I read things here (many posted ANON) many by women and girls, that I am betting they would never discuss or talk about openly with their closest friend (s) I have answered some of those questions here about some really TABOO things I did as a teen, but would not, have not discussed or told to anyone, for fear of condemnation by whomever I told.
That said, I think GAG is a site that does allow some of those 'confessions' of we can call them that, in that it takes some of the 'sting' out of those behaviors that we before thought were beyond the pale or taboo