That sounds like a super toxic situation. I can't explain his behavior. There's no justification for it. Either... you're together... meaning nobody has sex with other people (and... presumably you'd have sex with each other). Or... you're not together.
It's insane that he feels like he has an exclusive claim on sex with you, while both never having sex with you but having sex with other people. That's fucking insane.
You're basically trading being mistreated for the stuff he gets you. That's what it comes down to. He buys you stuff, and in exchange he controls your sex-life. And has decided you don't need a sex life.
I don't think this is gonna ever get better unless you leave the dude. That's some abusive bullshit.
Kinda sounds like two of my ex-guitarists!! They're seeing someone steady, one has at least 7 kids with his girlfriend (they're not married) but he still fucks anything he can get his dick into. The other either has a steady girlfriend or a wife and STILL fucks everything in a skirt that'll stand still long enough!! However, it sounds like your ex seems to have ownership issues! He thinks he owns you and, as they say, "rules for thee but none for me!". You can't fuck anyone but him but, he's strictly, "have dick: will travel!".
He's either greedy and wants it all.
Or he doesn't jive with your personality. Honestly you sound like a narcissist yourself.
Opinion
12Opinion
Holy shit where do we start. Let's recap. Your ex won't touch you but buys you garbage. He sleeps around a lot but doesn't want to tell you about it.
For one, if you're so attractive (which you mentioned twice and posted a picture of yourself which... Proves it? I'm guessing?) why is this a worry? Why aren't you moving on to someone else? Apparently you're so attractive and successful but his needs somehow aren't being met with you. Weird.
I love your smile, are those fish around your neck? You are absolutely gorgeous... ;)
Bottom line is you don’t turn him on. . . but you do me
I don't even understand the question, the wording is all fucked up.
Why won't he touch you? Whatever is going on there is likely the issue.
Mid life crisis. Men and women look fif what they've missed in life. Some get over it, some don't.
He has issues is what he has. Best to cut all ties with this guy.
You say You're 54. I'd be interested to know his age.
This is bad trolling.
m Try Christian Mingles
He's a cunt, drop him.
Oh wow,
Gong Show
Superb Opinion