Search Results: attracting the wrong guys

So a few days ago I ran into a comment debate, two GAG users were debating, one user a male said that "black women are at the bottom of the barrel and men will not get into serious relationships with them" to which the female user replied and said to the male user

"speak for yourself and say that you, yourself put black women at the bottom of the barrel and that you will not get into serious relationships with them, because some men do get into serious relationships with them and put them at the top of the barrel".

This debate was quite heated I must say... these users added links to studies and statistics etc.

But now I want to know what other male GAG users have to say,

Do you guys put black women at the bottom of the barrel, are they your last pick and would you not get into a serious relationship with them, i. e. marriage?

DISCLAIMER: Race is a dating preference, therefore please feel free to honestly express your preferences what ever they might be, I will not judge you at all for it because almost everybody has racial dating preferences, and it does not make you a racist. It's like saying you prefer women with lighter skin -less melanin- because that looks attractive to you. Or even like saying you prefer women with darker skin-more melanin- because that looks more attractive to you, this is not racism.

There is nothing wrong with preferring people who you are visually attracted to.

Is it wrong to accept since I’m not exactly bisexual or is it ok as I’m not exactly anything in particular at this point as far as all that goes. It’s not that I’m never attracted to people I just don’t really have the ability to envision anything coming of it esp sexually. I mean I guess I do not see the harm in hanging out but should I tell her it’s prob not going to go anywhere or just I wave it open. I’m semi attracted to her which is about as attracted as I’ve ever been to any guy I was attracted to but she’s kinda boyishly cute so maybe that’s why why h is why I’m not sure if it’s ok to say yes?

27F, it’s odd and just unlucky considering most women don’t have to bat an eye when it comes to dating. I’ve been on and off the apps for years, I’ve recently come to point where I just put minimal effort. Minimal as in sending a message 2-3 days max and swiping on profiles maybe every other week. I’ve spent so much time asking myself what’s wrong with me, even lost and maintained my weight loss over the years and can’t attract a guy I’d want. I get attention and likes but it’s the unrequited/only want hookups/they like me I don’t like them situation. I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with me, I have a low sex drive but that’s more common for women vs men. I find it odd that I couldn’t attract a decent guy where it’s reciprocated and the rest falls into place. Dating apps were my only outlet, I don’t have friends. Atm I’m on hinge, which I’ve heard is one of the better apps. My mom tells me I just haven’t found the right one and maybe that’s the case but can’t help but wonder if there’s more to it? Maybe not