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I am turning 28 in a few months, of course nearing my 30s, and I never had a real girlfriend before. I had some online things, but they all rejected me upon meeting in person for the first time. Meanwhile, I have watched all my former friends form serious relationships, get married, and most of them have kids now.

I am not the most attractive guy physically. I am short and overweight I admit. I am also "weird" to a lot of people. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have mental health issues too.

I haven't touched a girl since I was 20 (back in June 2015). I lost my virginity then to a 16 year old girl who was supposedly a virgin too at the time. I have only had sex exactly once in my lifetime. I have never actually "made love".

It saddens me because all my life I always wanted to have a girlfriend, wife, and kids of my own.

Really, I am seeking a decently attractive woman without a romantic past, but my days are numbered finding that I feel. That is a deal breaker to me. I feel I would be lucky to even find a good woman who has never been married at this point

I am 27, almost 28, and I have never had a real girlfriend. Of all the people I have known throughout my life, I don't know anyone that shares that circumstance. In fact, I am the only one out of my former friends to not be married and/or have children. I am finding it incredibly difficult to relate and for others to have empathy for my situation, because everyone I know hasn't lived it.

I am ultimately wanted me and a woman to be each other's first loves and first real relationship. I don't know if this will ever happen. It is a deal breaker for me.