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i apologize in advance if its too long.

• I have a male friend who is bisexual.. He told me few weeks ago he is recently interested in guys rather than girls. He just had a guy ghost him last month We are super close coworkers and became friends at work. He is really sweet, he always texts me if im coming in tonight or he asks the boss to pair us up at work He compliments my jewelry, or if i curled my hair that day he is the first one to notice. Once after our shift i told him i was cold and he invited me up in his flat made me coffee, gave me one of his hoodies to wear. He showed me pictures of his family and told stories about them. Next day i showed up at work wearing his hoodie. He complimented that it looks nice on me. I wore it through the shift and i wanted to give it back to him but he said i should keep it in case i'll be cold again. But ofc i gave it back because i didn't want to steal it. I talked to one of my other guy friends once and he told me jokingly that i cheated on him. Then he started telling me things like that guy is hot/ who is that pretty blonde over there? I told him that she was this handsome guy's girlfriend the next day i pointed at him and told him that is the boyfriend of the blondie He remembered that i said he was handsome and commented on it that if i think that guy is handsome than my bar is really low. So i asked who is handsome then, like where should the bar be. He said "me".

Or this other time he said he likes it when some1 is cuddly I asked him why he told me that. He said no reason, but asked:why? Am i not cuddly? Also laughed it off.. He is always teasing me tho with my height and basically with everything. But he also said my friends were pretty girls but didn't include me.. But him mentioning that he checked this guy's pics and my friend being pretty or so on, maybe all this could be just him making a new friend?

Gym manager is attracted to me, but can’t tell if he’s a f*ckboy that does it w everyone. He’s extremely attractive til the point that I’m finding it hard to speak around him

First visit: he came over and asked if a resistance band was mine. Thought he was trying to pack it away, didn’t think much of it but noticed he kept walking past / looking at me

2nd visit: I was facing the mirror doing my stretches and he took a really deep breath when he saw me (like he was nervous?) He spoke (I had to get out my earphones) and asked if the resistance band was mine. At this point, I am thinking my resistance band either really annoys him or he’s trying v hard to talk to me

Went back to my thing and saw he turned to check me out while I stretched

3) 3rd visit: I was on the stairmaster and he was putting away the weights while facing me and lingered in the area

I went to the hiit studio, and didn’t know how to operate the lights and went out to seek help and lo and behold, he was the first one I saw. After He turned it on with the iPad, he was fiddling w the device / lingeringyI was an awkward mess and just said thanks without looking him in the eyes. he had this big smile on his face when he said no problem and kept touching his hair. I just turned away and went to get my equipment. He kept looking over at me before he walked out the door.

I kicked myself & told myself I’d approach him upstairs at the concierge when I finished my workout. When I got out of the hit studio, he was sat on the recovery chair right outside like he was waiting for me to get out? The gym was closing at this point and there was no one else in that section so he could have been anywhere else. I again freaked out due to nerves and walked right past him - the poor guy turned and looked at me walk away

I believe he’s trying very hard to approach me without being disrepectful. But I’m not confident and he’s absolutely gorgeous which explains my nerves. Any tips on how to make things happen?