Trying to decode his mixed signals?

[solstice02]

I met a guy on a dating app and we have been talking for the past three weeks, we met up for the first time last week and spent all day together and the conversation was good, one thing that I noticed was different was he never made a move or tried to kiss me. However, he told me he wanted a girlfriend he was just waiting to find someone since its so hard to date these days.

This week he invited me to his house for drinks with his friend. It was good but I noticed he didn't really flirt with me at all, he was more standoffish but I didn't think of it too much. However, when his friends were away he did touch me but he wasn't as flirty which maybe isn't his thing. I did sleep over and we did hook up, we cuddled when we slept. He told me he was moving 1 hour away and as i joke i said oh so your leaving me and he was like i never said i was. The morning after, we didn't cuddle in the morning and we barely talked which felt a little awkward between the two of us. I left and he hugged me goodbye. I realized i left my bathing suit at his house and I texted him saying "Oh okay, i will get it to you sometime soon.". I then told him i needed it for the end of the month and he said "okay no worries" usually he would've continued the conversation. I asked to come pick it up this weekend and he hasn't responded in a couple hours. He also has not opened my snapchat from 24 hours ago.

considering he is a non-chalant type person and he is also a mid-twenty year old i may be reading into this too much. However, I get a lot of anxiety in these situations from my ex boyfriend.

I don't know how i should approach the situation asking what are his plans considering he is moving in 2 months. I do genuinely like him and would like to continue with him, however i feel it is too early to talk about that after only knowing each other for a couple weeks. Or should i ask if we are good as i feel something may have been said with me flirting with him that he didn't like.

[kylee2437]

Just because you have hooked up with him - doesn’t mean this guy needs to be the one for you. If it gets to the point where you are feeling for nervous about this situation because it seems like his feelings constantly change - that’s your gut feeling telling you, this guy isn’t the ideal for you.