Would I be wrong if I start asking for more from this guy? I don’t mean a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I (22F) have been hooking with (25M) for about a few months now. For one, let me just say, I was fine with the arrangement of us hooking up and occasionally going on dates but I have noticed now that I have my apartment, we don’t go on dates at all. But, with that being said, I don’t even want him to take me out again. I’m content with being in my own space and doing things alone. He has no problem asking me to hook up but I don’t really ask him for my but I’m going to start asking for a lot more because he literally doesn’t do shit. When I first moved into my apartment, he went out and bought me a few groceries but he only did that one time. He constantly asks me if I “need anything” and I’ve been saying no

Now that I think about it, he has no problem asking when he can see me so we can hook up but I barely ask him for anything. So with that being said, I’m going to start asking him for whatever I feel like Now because it’s just insane to me that you wanna sleep with me, stay the night but you don’t pay for shit and I keep saying I don’t “need anything” well I’m going to stop lying by saying that when the truth is, I have actually needed a lot!

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10 mo

I don’t want exchanges for sex, I think I just am no longer interested hooking up with this person (don’t know what changed my mind) and I’m just tryin to justify it

[Anonymous]

If it isn't a relationship that you want, then what is it? Does he need to pay more attention to what @BoobSlayer constantly talks about?

[Asker]

I think I really in general just don’t want to hook up with him anymore but I’m trying to justify it somehow.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know what's wrong, she asked this question too about piercings and as you see she has piercings in her current profile pic:

Would you ever get an intimate piercing? ↗

[Asker]

I was thinking of just ghosting him because I know if I tell him that I don’t wanna hook up anymore, he’s going to try to do things to convince me otherwise? What do u think?

[Asker]

@roosterbreast but that account says she’s inactive. She must have multiple accounts that she shut down which is fine but I don’t understand why she lied about how old she was. I don’t understand y people lie about silly things like their age… literally nobody cares how old you are as long as you aren’t a child of course

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah kinda ghost him, but make it clear why too.

But @shesrad80 is now removing my replies so I have to repost them.

What if I have saved something on https://archive.ph where that profile which was age 25 a year ago had the same profile picture as yours now?

[Asker]

Okay and tell me why i was going to ask her a question, and she blocked me 😂😂😂

[Asker]

U must’ve really embarrassed her for her to go anonymous and block the way she did 😂😂💀💀but it’s funny because lying about ur age is so silly

[Opinion Owner]

RoosterBreast
15 min
Wait. You're 32 now, but used to be 24?

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ShesRad80
ShesRad80
13 min
@RoosterBreast i wasn't 24

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ShesRad80
ShesRad80
11 min
you got me confused- with who i dont know?

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RoosterBreast
RoosterBreast
4 min
I think this same profile you're on now was 24 just recently or 25.

For sure when you joined this site in September last year under the same name except without "80" and had the same profile pics, you were age 25 then

Such as the mho here:
How do I cope with needing a personality transplant which I am unable to humanly get? ↗

Anonymous
Asker
1 min
Why did you lie about how old you were? There is nothing wrong with your age and you gain nothing from lying about it😂😂

[Asker]

Wait, how did you know that the last question was her if she went anonymous?

[Opinion Owner]

Its not her question. It is the MHO under her old account.

[Opinion Owner]

The MHO there

I just search up *site:girlsaskguys. com "shesrad"* and it shows her old posts lmao.

[Asker]

Why did u have to call her out like that in front of everybody tho? What did she do? 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know I started with "what happened to your age" it wasn't supposed to be a troll thread.

[Opinion Owner]

Wait. I might have more proof. On one of my old devices, where i saved the HTML of all my followings the day my first account got terminated but the following list stays visible for a day after... i think i was following her, and if so, it will have her as one of the people whom I follow and her profile was active according to the posts, for at least 2 months. I think I was one of the first people she followed when she just joined in September then (and who knows how many accounts she had before and after lol) and I got terminated a few weeks after.

If I ever come across my old devices and find the evidence, I will post it in a reply to her here 😂😂

[Asker]

Didn’t she already blocked u?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but since she is anonymous and I am not, I can reply.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn it. I just found a post of mine where she commented and I have saved it to archive. org

But there were so many opinions that her is at the bottom and you have to click "show more opinions" bit the archive doesn't allow it.

There everyone has old profile pics.

[Opinion Owner]

There is one of her questions on which I left an opinion, Do you have a celebrity crush that would be considered atypical? ↗

I said yes, jacinda ardern.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XOYezWjS6Zg

But fuck it, what a waste of time lol.

Or maybe I should still find the evidence?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no, I found it, and she disabled to photo while she was still active.

[Opinion Owner]

This was saved on September 23 and she joined on September 10th last year.



In 13 days her photo was already gone!!!

DO YOU REALIZE HOW CREEPY THAT IS?

[Opinion Owner]

What the hell, it says she was level 3

But now her profile says level 2 with 297 xper points.

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/shesrad

Either GaG changed requirements to reach level 3 or she lost points.

DO YOU REALIZE HOW CREEPY THAT IS?

I should create a 20th account under the same name as all my trolling accounts. Another @perverted_creep might be needed!
DO YOU REALIZE HOW CREEPY THAT IS?

[Opinion Owner]

Found it!!!

I remembered that the same question of mine where she left an opinion but the archive didn't capture it...

It was on archive. org

But on archive. ph which I also saved it to 5 times, it DID catch it!!!

[Opinion Owner]

But there bobody is going to read this thread. And who cares if people read this? I know you will read it because you keep messaging me about the things I stated in other places on this site.

Calm down, you're going to far. And I only mean this with your first message haha. I mean if you accuse me of being that account then it makes you sound like you have pills to take... but we all know what is going on.

And don't get me started on you second reply. I have not said one thing about *you* that I don't have evidence for. In fact, I've only been using the evidence to guide my questions.

Perhaps, did you actually change your age? The evidence makes it look so.

Is that your old account? It looks like it.

[Anonymous]

he is treating you like a hook up- meaning he isn't going out of his way for you for anything or to get you anything. he doesn't really owe you anything to be honest and thats how he is acting. hook up means sex thats it, he's using you to get what he needs and wants and then he's done till the next time. you have girlfriend expectation with a hook up, so well yeah its kinda wrong

[Opinion Owner]

@RoosterBreast i wasn't 24

[Opinion Owner]

you got me confused- with who i dont know?

[Opinion Owner]

@RoosterBreast wrong

[Asker]

Well I’ma use him to get what I want and need too an; oooop 😂😂👀

[Opinion Owner]

wasn't on here in Sep, been a Member since: 2/20/2023.

[Opinion Owner]

@RoosterBreast i guess you think the trolling is fun?

[Opinion Owner]

very true and sorry about this trolling dbag commenting in here

[Opinion Owner]

he has me confused with another user as i sent him her link

[RoosterBreast]

Why block me again? I already didn't message you as you asked not to.

[RoosterBreast]

I mean, I know this is your first account on here. I never said you had more accounts.

And that red haired girl... damn she's hot? I hope you don't think I'm describing you , no, friend, I'm talking about that other girl with red hair, you probably never had a chance to talk to her. she's nothing short of hyper f*ckable. Oh wait, yeah that's har sexy **? She never told me about being in a relationship or anything. Sp I dont think she will be offended, but I wouldn't dare say this to you.

[Billlewis]

Number one, you can never ask too much from a guy you're dating, because as a woman, you deserve to be treated like absolute royalty at all times. Number two, any time a guy says he doesn't want to do what you tell him to, you can simply start dating another guy, who is willing to work harder to please you.

[Anonymous]

Lol so then call it quits. This is an friends with benefits, meaning strictly sexual. Even just going on a few dates isn't in my opinion, part of an friends with benefits situation. Sounds like prostitution to me.

[spartan55]

Yeah, really wanted that no strings sex... so phony

[RyanK9b]

So u want him to pay when u guys meet and sleeps over?
So you are hooker?

[Asker]

I didn’t say I wanted to be a prostitute 😂😂 wow people on here are still wild

[Awesomesauce2005]

Sounds about right. Only difference would be if you told him what you want when he asks, he's trying to show he cares

[Asker]

He’s trying to show he cares how?

[RyanK9b]

Better ask for goods. If comes over demand your fav food. Or something you want that he compensated you for the visit

[Awesomesauce2005]

The way you explain it it seems he wants to provide

[Asker]

No ur right but I don't know I just have been having a lot of stress in my life and I’m not sure if I want to hookup with anyone rn..

[Dan_cColt]

Sounds like your a "booty call" 🤷‍♂️

[mommymommymommy]

So you're sayin, you just bought something, and now you need money.

Huh, go figure