How do I cope with needing a personality transplant which I am unable to humanly get?

[Anonymous]

• I have no friends and now I can see why.
• I have no personality.
• I am boring, naive, easy to manipulate and dumb.
• I think too highly of myself subconsciously.
• I can't reject a guy who hits on me. I just ignore his advances. He has no clue and has to figure it out on his own over time that I am not interested. Normal women with brains and empathy probably do something humane like tell him Sorry I have a boyfriend or Sorry I am not interested. But me? I am a psychotic loner and overthinking overfeeler who can find any stupid little reason to i ternally hate and seethe over anyone who annoys me in any tiny way. I'm trying to curb it.
• I am fake and shallow.
• I can barely hold a conversation. Just google interviews of Emily Ratajkowksi to get an idea if what I am like. We are both very fake people. Here is a good example of how I am always the 3rd or 80th wheel or heck even 2nd wheel in just about any interaction because I am a stunted individual:
  

[SueShe]

I don't think that you need a transplant of any kind but just good guidance from a specialist.

There are many people just like you that think that they are total failures. This must not be because if you seek help you can learn to overcome the way you perceive yourself.

Some of the points you mention are actually positive and not negative. Ignoring advances from a guy is just as effective as saying no to his advances.

Also, don't hide yourself behind words such as "sorry". Saying sorry means that you are in a negative position whereas not wanting something or somebody does not have to make you be sorry for it.

You mention that you are fake and shallow. This is your perception of that state and probably not the one of others. Saying "sorry" does not make you shallow.

You are the only one that can help yourself and you should start where you know you can get help. That would be by consulting a psychologist that can go with you over the issues you think you have. Good luck.

[PrettyPriya]

Quick question for @SueShe. Did you happen to opine on this question?

How do I deal with the fact that a lookalike of my celebrity crush is ruining how I feel about my celebrity crush? ↗

I did and it is gone, along with a few others. I am seeing if the asker is removing them all and trolling. Thanks!

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya No I did not. I just froze the spammer that asked another similar question (which I hid) and where both your and my replies where removed. The question was "Rate Avan Jogia on sexinesa".

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Okay, thanks. I have a few people putting comments on the linked question. If they are gone, I will freeze that user and remove the question. To be fair, I was not too kind in my opinion. 😞

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Go ahead, make my day (quote from the TV)

[shesrad]

completely overhaul yourself starting from jump finding out who you are, what you like exploring who you are

[Guy13]

Mental health consult. Until you get your self-perception right you are throwing money down the drain.

[Avicenna]

You can change that- become the person that you want to be.

[Explorer91]

Develop some humour. It’s the best way to create a personality. First step.

[FckY0u998]

no it's because you're cold hearted

[In_Trance]

Therapy