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Search Results: pay for dates
Do women a gentleman’s club want gentlemen or money?
I recently been to a gentleman’s club. Before I could even reach the bar for a drink, this one girl was all over me. I got my beverage and we had two dances, which cost me $20 each. And then she offered me to take her to...
Anonymous
(36-45) The wedding party is upset with me, but they didn’t keep me updated on the changes. Should I pay double the money to adjust?
My cousin is getting married in 2 months. Back in early June, my cousin’s best man created a group chat for the groomsmen and told us he’d update us here on what the plans are for my cousin’s bachelor party. In order to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Which girl is correct in this situation?
Amanda and Sophie plan a trip together. Sophie asks Amanda to front the cost of the trip (plane, car, and hotel). Amanda agrees and fronts the money. A week or so goes back and Sophie backs out of the trip leaving Amanda...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you trust or become friends or date a man who didn’t pay attention to you before you had some sort of glow up or makeover?
Guys are hitting on me and it’s annoying af. I just changed my hair. Guys are so shallow. But my crush changed towards me too. That means he’s a shallow pos. Crush is disappearing. Never date a man who only pays attention...
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Xper 1 Age: 35 Girls, Do you flirt to feel good about yourself? How do I stop catching feelings for the wrong men?
I like to flirt because it makes me feel good. It feels good when an attractive man compliments me and pays attention to me. My last relationship ended up in shambles, and recently i've met a man who is tall, really...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
He offered me a job at his company?
I had been speaking to this man over social media. He was extremely interested in my face more than the usual man. He would have sexual conversations with me throughout the time we have been speaking. I had answered some...
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Xper 4 Age: 22 Is it possible to pay a girl to date you?
I don’t feel it’s gonna happen from conventional methods
Anonymous
(30-35) The guy has NPD and I have the same borderline. I thought he discarded me but Im doubting it. What are the chances that I have triggered?
1. When I rejected him he was begging. 2. When I returned, he made me beg, cry and obviously devalue and gaslight 3. He was chasing all who devalued (chasing as in, appreciating the company of all those who didn't value...
Anonymous
(18-24) My mom hates my girlfriend, but my girlfriend makes me want to be a better man. How should I proceed?
I’ve been dating this girl, let’s call her Alyssa, for a few months. My mom hates her for 2 main reasons: (1) she dresses “too revealing” and (2) she thinks she’s “high maintenance”. Some additional context, my family is...
Anonymous
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Xper 6 Age: 30 Girls, how would you feel if a guy asked you on a date and it was understood he would pay, then when the bill came, he paid with a gift certificate?
I watched a video yesterday of a woman crucifying a guy that did this. She actually liked him and was excited he asked her out but when he paid with a gift certificate, she said he blew all his chances for a second date....
Wallythewalrus2
Xper 7 Age: 31 My employer gave me 2 weeks notice and plans to close the business?
had been at work today as usual and then at end of day , she gave me this letter and had me sign it. basically says my last day of work is August 21 and that business will no longer operate past that date. it indicates i...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is He Worth It, or Am I Setting Myself Up for Heartbreak?
So, for context, I (18F) have developed feelings for my friend's older brother (20M) over the past couple of months. Recently, he asked me out via text, but I've been picking up on vibes that he might not be all that...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do you handle hypocrisy in the work place?
I started a new job a couple months ago and for the most part this job and this company has many good qualities about it. it’s not my dream job by any means but the work environment makes up for it. That being said, here...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can I ask for money back from a girl who pretended to like me?
I was talking to a girl and she found out that I was going out of the country for few days on a business trip. So we dated and she told me that could I bring her two bottles of expensive foreign liquor that you can't...
Kaamraj
Explorer Age: 36 Ariana Grande’s Most Controversial Moments
This is gonna be a long one lmaoooo Now y'all know I love miss Ponytail! Miss vocals! Miss Ariana Grande Butera! she's my girl however being an Ariana Stan has not always been easy. This fandom has had to defend her...
I feel guilty for letting him pay. Should I dm him to pay him back after 5 years? 😭?
I know this situation might be weird but: About 5 years ago I went on a date with this guy, he was very sweet. He insisted to pay the bill after I multiple times said to split. He still paid (about $90) So I said to...
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Xper 5 Age: 24 
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Yoda Age: 21 Is it a green flag if a girl doesn’t get on her phone and pays for her Uber to a date?
I recently went on a date. She got an Uber to the location (she said she didn't want to bother me and doesn't have a car), I did give her a ride back home. I paid for our meal and I thought it went well. She never got on...
Anonymous
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