Search Results: sweet nothings

Pros:
- Very thoughtful towards my family and spends time with them, pays for them when going out
- Loves me, always checks up on me and takes care of me.
-We also have fun joking around and talking to each other
- Sometimes surprise me with snacks so I don't stress out too much in school
-Very good with kids and always trying to make me happy when I communicate my needs and
concerns

Cons:
-Doesn't have similar interests together (I like sightseeing, exercising, and going out, he likes staying home and spend time with fam)
-Doesn't have a stable career or any ambition
(Makes minimum wage and tells me he will find a better job but nothing changed after a few years,
I'm still in school trying to become a nurse)
-Incompatible sex drives (I get sex deprived bc we only have sex when he wants it and we don't do it as much)
- Doesn't prioritize me (last minute cancelled on my bday bc he doesn't want to do what I want to do and is tired that day)

Overall it's not a bad relationship. He's a very sweet guy but sometimes I don't feel like we're compatible and lately, I feel like im slowly falling out of love. Especially since he's not even trying to improve himself with a better career. But then at the same time I still have so much love for him and don't want to regret leaving him. We've been together for a couple years so I don't know. Is this relationship worth staying in or should I find someone more compatible?

For context, I am 17F, and he is 16M.

I've known him for around a year now, and we didn't use to hang out this much.
Recently, we've been hanging out almost every weekend, and every day in school. We both do Theatre and Track & Field, so we hang out there too.

He's become very cuddly, and touchy with me, wanting hugs and telling me I'm beautiful. And he does this fascinating eye contact thing... Anytime I'm talking, he is always looking into my eyes, and sometimes we'll look at each other and hold eye contact without saying anything.

I can also completely stop his words. He'll be saying something, and in the middle of a sentence, I can just stare into his eyes, and his words will fizzle off into nothing, and he'll just stand there, looking at me. I can hold that for as long as I want before restarting the conversation.

He's very protective of me, especially when I'm sleeping, he'll hold me and make sure no one disturbs me. It's really sweet.

With this knowledge, I believe I'm in a situationship. (Correct me if you believe otherwise, open to any comments!) That being said, should I make the first move, or should I give him some more time, and let him do it himself?