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I'm not fat, I run 5 kms daily. But I am tired of posts on this site about people being "lazy" if they gain weight. There are a lot of reasons why someone can become fat and it has nothing to do with being lazy (people that say laziness are typical nasty, ignorant & uneducated).

KNOWN reasons include:

~ Medication can cause weight gain, in fact it's extremely common for certain medicine
~ Mental health issues - depression, insomnia, etc. can be cause for weight gain
~ Medical issues such as hypothyroidism is very typical in causing weight gain issues
~ Serious injuries that handicap mobility (e. g. broken legs) can cause weight gain
~ Poor diet overly processed but cheaper products can obviously cause weight gain

Plenty of reasons that involve weight gain without being lazy.

2 guy friends, a possibility of dating?

Both guys I've known online for 2 years, we talk on and off, with our good and bad weeks. I've met them eavh individually once, very different kind of days out and different guys.

Number (1) and I share a lot in common its almost strange. We share the same values and he's very mature. I can see something long-term with him. The only downside is that the differences we do have we argue over. He also has autism which means that there are constant communication issues. I feel like we're both very submissive people but that could be potentially comforting. There was no pfp when I started talking to him, so I talked to him for the conversation. In some ways I find him attractive, but it's 50/50.

Number (2) and I share almost nothing in common, although we seem to be able to communicate very easily. Once talking we are both there for each other emotionally and are passionate about our ideas. The downside with him is that I feel I'm constantly struggling to make conversation as it revolves around him. If a relationship were to evolve it would be short term. He is more dominant than myself. I started talking to him originally because he was attractive.

Do you think they're right? Just say what you think.

I'm 23 and never had a boyfriend, no sex, nothing past a peck on the lips. Not even a proper romantic kiss.

The problem is my type just isn't common (not saying I'm into "tall and muscular men" only, that's not true at all) but I'm more of an old fashioned type of gal. I've always wanted a "gentleman" whether that sounds silly or not and lookswise he's gotta look manly but neat.

Anyways, please feel free to comment and vote. Thanks!