If the society experts claim that women are naturally attracted to bad boys, then in what way do they love good men they want to settle with?

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Because what I am trying to imply is that the argument: " all Women are attracted to bad boys" doesn't make sense to me. It's like saying all 4 billion women share the same personality. This is unrealistic. Because the World is so arbitrary. I truly believe that there are great women out there who would love a good man for who he is... depending on the ENVIRONMENT, THE CULTURE AREA, PARENTING, INHERITANCE... and I would like to clarify the statement with the question above.

Thanks for regards. I have no reason to hide my identification with this. It's a common yet most discussed topic. Whereas there's really nothing to talk about it because... you do what you love... you are... who you are... so is the same with Person C, B, D... we are all different. And... actually what I find so funny is... you can actually make sooo many assumptions and statements about this... that any other guy/girl can share their opinion whether you are educated or not.

You cannot change the fact that some women love bad boys or what people prefer because all these things are beyond our control and we have to accept it in order to move forward. So, I'd suggest to identify your own personality, who you are, what you prefer, love and follow your goals and don't deal with stuff you can't fit in.

UmbrusNightshade · Accepted Answer

The idea in and of itself doesn’t take into account biology and the “biological clock.”

From my research into the topic, younger women tend to gravitate towards more genetically gifted men (muscular, attractive, dominant, etc.) because at a younger age they typically aren’t actively looking for a long term partner to produce offspring with.

The proclivity for going after the “bad boys” is more about fulfilling sexual appetite than anything else. Because they aren’t, generally, trying to get pregnant, the focus is on the most pleasurable sexual activity as possible. The biological drive, then, is that if they did happen to get pregnant that the man’s genetics would suggest that the pregnancy and the baby would be in good health.

However, as women age and start to get “baby fever” and want to settle down, they start to look for qualities in a man that would make him a good provider, protector and have a decent chance he’ll stick around post-pregnancy. This is why women seem to sometimes “settle” for less attractive men. These men often don’t have the genetic make up that is desirable but tend to make up for it through earning good wages/salary, having assets, being considerate and kind (or other protector/caregiver traits) and, because their lesser genetics leans to less mating options, they tend to be much more loyal to their partners.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Sharing a single common trait isn’t the same as sharing an entire personality. You’re over generalizing every bit as much as the people you seem to be calling out.
The heart of the issue is men who don’t have the ability to portray kindness without also portraying weakness, and women who similarly can’t detect the difference. Nobody appreciates weak men; absolutely nobody. Neither men nor women have any use for weak men. NOT selecting them as mates is the most humane way of ridding our species of such genetic defects, thereby improving our chances of survival as a species. We COULD just throw out defective babies at birth, and sterilize their parents so they don’t make more useless humans. Nobody wants to talk about that though. I suppose because if we started making such sharp calls about boys and men, we’d eventually be forced to make similar calls about girls and women. Societally we’ve invested a great deal of time, energy and money into convincing everyone that all women are gifts from God just because. Meanwhile most men are “toxic” and defective, just because. I suppose nobody wants to turn back the clock on all that “progress”. Ell oh ell!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Bad boys are sexy and sometimes we just want sexy without all the rest.

inhua · Answer

women are naturally attracted to bad boys which is why religion, culture and societal expectations exist in most parts of the world. under a true global "matriarchy" as the feminists would want, the world would revert back to its barbaric ways where men at the top aka the kings, emperors and warlords would have the vast majority of women, other men who were soldiers, peasants and merchants were lucky to have a woman and slaves got nothing

polygamy is quite natural in the animal kingdom and humans are no different. if you reduce the world population down to 20 people. 10 men and 10 women and distribute attractiveness evenly. guess what? 8 women will gravitate towards 2 of the men and 2 of the 8 leftover men will get the other 2 leftover women and 6 men will end up alone

Guy13 · Answer

Eventually, our clocks want to be settled and we are likely to grab onto whatever is chasing us. I do not buy the good/bad guy garbage. Excuse making for not going after life is how I see it.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

It's not necessarily the bad boys. They want men who are confident, disagreeable, takes care of themselves and must have some ability to defend himself and others. Bad boys just happen to have those traits. The problem is, men nowadays are being pointed out that those things make them bad people for some reason so they avoid it.

Anonymous · Answer

Bad boys are to women like sluts are to men. They just want to fuck them but would never marry them.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women want their guy to be a bad boy only occasionally.

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