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I’ve had to break things off down two women in the recent years (one was a marriage was possibility) and still deep down respect them. That is I didn’t blame them for my decision and it was agonizingly difficult decision to make. They were decent women and did nothing fundamentally wrong (e. g. cheating, abuse, lying about major issues)

But I think hard before major decisions and I knew there would be likely major trouble with both women in the future. So I knew they would be heartbroken but I did everything respectfully as possible. I did everything face to face while making eye contact and telling them they didn’t do anything wrong as a person. Told I respected them and I meant it. But it was the decision I had to make.

But I never had woman give me anything remotely close to that kind of respect when I got dumped. Instead I was once told straight to my face by a girl who I casually dated (and considered making it more serious) that “When I like someone I well tell them”. She decided to break it off with me and inferred she never told me she “liked me”. She then had f*cking nerve to ask if we could still be “friends”. I told her fuck no of course.

I also was (initially) respectfully dumped by another girl who a few weeks later literally told me “tough luck you’re an ex” when I informed her about a serious health issue I had at the time.

I’ve also had another girl completely ghost me after almost dating for a year after a minor argument (the relationship was getting rocky but still).

Obviously 99% of the time you will never actually “like” anyone you break up with. Rare exception is some sort of kind of tragic romance where you break up with person you “like” because you are pledged to marry someone else.

However you can respect someone you break up with if they never did anything to intentional harm you (abuse, cheating, etc). But from my experience women usually equate likeability with respect.

I'm kind of bored. Here's a dating poll. Vote based on your gender and/or se xuality. Yes; none of them are "perfect." That's not the point. Just pick the best one for you out of these options. Who's Best Girl/Guy?

FOR STRAIGHT GIRLS AND GAY DUDES:

Option A - A 5'5"/165 cm very short, 21 year old, decent-looking, fit guy, who is Asian or Indian, is poor, only earning $15K a year working in fast food or as a barista, who has a nice and romantic personality.

Option B - A 5'10"/178 cm short, 27 year old, overweight guy with a beer belly/dad bod, who is black or Middle-eastern, earning $40K a year as a security guard, who is very funny, charming, respectful, interesting, and astute in personality.

Option C - A 6'3"/190 cm tall, 33 year old, handsome, athletic guy with a six pack, who is white or Hispanic, earning $160K a year as a lawyer, who's also divorced and has a small pe nis, and has a big ego & short temper in personality.

FOR STRAIGHT GUYS AND QUEER FEMALES:

Option D - A 4'10"/147 cm very short, 22 year old, fair-looking, fit & in-shape girl, who is Indian or Middle-eastern, grew up spoiled by her rich parents and doesn't work for a living, is highly attracted to you romantically and physically, who is known to be easily jealous & clingy in personality.

Option E - A 5'5"/165 cm short, 26 year old, chubby and busty girl, who is white or Asian, and works as an office secretary at a small business earning $32K a year, and is rather lazy outside of work, who is very loving & motherly to everyone in personality.

Option F - A 6'0"/183 cm tall, 30 year old, beautiful, toned and slim girl, with a 34DD cup bust, who is black or Hispanic, earning $60K a year as an amateur Instagram model, who has a past as a former escort/pros titute and OF worker, who is very down-to-earth & modest in personality.