Hi, looking to get another person's advice because I'm not to sure what is going on with, and if things should be left dead with a girl I was texting. I met a girl at a friends house about a year ago that we had a lot in common with and we both had a great time talking to each other and exchanged numbers after. I thought things were going decent until, after about a week of texting she ghosted me.
Then a few months later I ran into her completely by chance again, and we got to talking. We went to the beach and had dinner, and I thought things went well. She had apologized for ghosting me and that she had a lot going on, but really enjoyed talking to me. After a few texts the next week I had a lot of stressful things going on with my life that I stopped texting her. Then a few months goes by of neither of us texting, until I randomly thought of her and texted her about a show she had recommended to me. Then after a week or so of texting about that show, I had a lot going on so I stopped texting her then silence again for a few months.
Now I find myself curious about how she's been, amd maybe ask her out, but wondering if I should just leave things be or to just reach out. I had really enjoyed talking with her, and we both have a lot in common. And we've repeatedly run into each other by chance but never actually been on a date that wasn't completely spur of the moment when we run into each other.
I'm not too sure what to make of things considering at one point or another we have both ghosted the other for months at a time before one of us reaches back out, but we keep running into each other, despite us living 3 hours apart.
I'm not to sure what to make of things, and have a bad habit of putting off situations I dont know what to do in. I'm thinking about reaching out again and seeing if she wants coffee. Anyone have advice for the situation?
