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I dated a man who discarded me fast after making me feel like he genuinely liked me but the moment I put a boundary on sex in which he knew about in the beginning he became very demeaning and he discarded me.. he is almost 40 and seems like he doesn’t know how to genuinely love a woman.. he seems to treat them like objects or status… since he comes from a religious, achieving family.. we weren’t intimate and we didn’t have a relationship bc he claims he wasn’t ready even though he made it seem like he wanted more in the beginning.. I feel like he’s the kind of guy who has a big ego.. he felt rejected and entitled but and there was no sense of empathy when he decided to discard and throw things back in my face… I just feel like he’s a man who doesn’t genuinely like women..

I think he lives a double life by possibly having sexual urges to sleep with trans women and he loves trans 🌽…

Can any man help me decide if this is typical downlow behavior? Seems like he can perform on how to treat a woman but is actually not caring or selfless/ knowing how to genuinely love a woman?

It seems like the cases of child abuse have been skyrocketing at an alarming rate. It makes me want to cry every time I heard those cases. Last week I've just read about a 1 month-old baby surviving SBS (shaken baby syndrome). He (now an older kid) has cerebral palsy and unable to ever eat on his own, talk or walk.

Other cases involved a 2 year-old boy that was beaten by his stepfather and left in a wheelchair and on a 24-hour care routine for life. He can't ever walk again. The cases goes on and on. A mother slapped her 3 year-old boy hard enough for him to fall out of upper bunk bed and hit his hard hard on some TV stand, leaving him with permanent brain damage.

The baby, toddler or young child that survived, were left with catastrophic brain damages. They were all born a healthy, functional baby and that life was forever stolen from them. They already gave that child a life sentence. Seriously should that already be a mandatory life sentence without parole. If a mother was given a life sentence for leaving her toddler at home (to fend for herself and the girl died of starvation) while she went on vacation, then shaking or beating a child and leaving brain damages should be the same sentence.

I think some things deserved that sentence even if the victim survives. I really hope a new law passes by one day, that gives that an immediate life sentence without parole. They destroyed a child's life and future.