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I never kept a diary in my life because I’m very comfortable expressing how I feel in front of my family but I doubt I will feel comfortable doing the same thing If I have a husband that’s why I’m planning to keep a personal diary for myself with a difficult to guess password and hide it somewhere where he will never find it. Whenever I’m hiding my feelings or something else to avoid meaningless conflicts I will write it all down in that diary as I don’t want to have to deal with conflicts in a marriage. Life will be easier that way

This isn't in reference to myself, just thinking about it in general from conversations I've seen between couples.

Lets say someone keeps saying they are not doing something anymore. Something they used to do but they stopped because they got into the relationship.

I don't have any particular thing in mind that is being hidden, just the concept of hiding and lying about it. Decided to throw something in here, cause it can be hard for people to imagine without an idea.

If something else fits you better, use it instead.

Lets say person A says they used to do onlyfans and sell content on snapchat. They no longer do.

They promise to their SO they no longer do that and give lots of reasons why. They have stated this many times in the past, nothing to be worried about.

Person B, the SO does at first trust without a doubt, but then starts to find little things that don't match up. Eventually they make a fake account to spy on their partner and find out, they've been lied to all along. That they really are still doing onlyfans and selling content on snap.


Which is worse and why do you think that?

No option for both are bad, cause trying to determine what most people think is the worst of the two.