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A NIGHTCLUB has banned staring without getting "verbal consent" - and hired "safety officers" in pink vests to police revellers.

The venue also asked clubbers not to turn up if their "sole purpose" for their night out is the meet someone to "pick up".

Club 77 in Sydney said managers will call the cops if clubbers stare at others without getting their consent.

And in an Instagram post, the club said "safety officers" in pink vests would enforce the new staring rules.

The fresh policy states that "Club 77 is not a place to come to if your sole purpose is to 'pick up'".

It added: "If you do come in and are approaching multiple people or giving unwanted attention to someone, you are going to attract the attention of our security, who have been instructed to stop this kind of behaviour."

The club said it was happy people to "interact with strangers” but "any engagement MUST begin with verbal consent".

Staring was highlighted as one form of harassment in the club's new safety and harassment policy.

The venue suggested clubbers could be booted out if they simply glanced at another person and they took offence - and the cops could be called.

“If you are, for example, staring at someone from afar – if the attention you are giving someone is unwanted, that is considered harassment," the club said.

“If you’re being harassed by another person or receiving unwanted attention, please seek them out or tell our staff immediately.

"We adopt a policy of ‘always believe the report’ in cases of harassment and feeling unsafe.

"If we receive reports of any behaviour that has made someone feel uncomfortable, the reported individual will be removed from the venue and the police will be called."

Social media users jumped to support the new policy.

One said: "Amazing!!! Positive party culture all the way!"

Another wrote: "Backing this 100 per cent."

It's often that you'll hear people say to "never settle" when it comes to dating. People also criticize others for being too picky--like telling a friend that they're pushing away great people over a long checklist of qualifications.

So my question to you is: what should we do? should we settle for someone who doesn't meet our original expectation for a boyfriend/girfriend/spouse, or should we wait it out and hope for that special someone that we've always imagined to come along?

Just as some thoughts:

Merits to settling include: making it easier to get into a nice relationship. Giving an ordinarily overlooked persona a chance, and breaking the trend of leaving "average" people alone and dsingle, in favor of clamoring after the people that everyone else already likes.

Merits to never settling include preventing a relationship with a dissatisfying partner, avoiding regrets in your relationship, and being absolutely certain that your choice of partner was the best.

So what do you think?

Also, listen to Bo Burnham's song about it when you get the chance. You'll laugh. It's called "Lower Your Expectations."