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1) I’m short. Only 5’10”

2) I don’t have a big penis. Only 6”

3) I’m not rich. I’m a college student.

4) I’m reserved. I’ve only had about 2-3 close friends at any one time. And I don’t go out and do things that often with other people. Prefer to just “chill out” on most days.

5) Very family oriented and have long term goals of marriage and children.

6) I’m not really that muscular or anything. I just look like an average run-of-the-mill type guy.

7) I always try to dress decently and look nice, but I don’t necessarily happen to turn every head in the room either and have girls flirting with me.

8) I don’t believe in having premarital sex. Just not something I feel comfortable with doing. Marriage is definitely the ideal time for me.

9) I go to church every week and I don’t believe in abortions or birth control. I believe in being responsible and trusting in God’s plan even when its difficult.

10) I don’t support the LGBTQ community or believe in any sort of woke BS relating to BLM. Such types piss me off.

11) I’m proud to be a white male and I feel no shame in being one and do not feel a personal responsibility to apologize to other people for it.

12) My ideal woman is someone who’s romantic and affectionate and actually thoughtful and grateful towards me. Not someone who just demands things and expects them from me.

Anyways. Do I actually stand a chance?

Black male's experience in college

" Back in college I’ve seen the sexiest Asians just throw themselves heavily at white guys. It was a surreal experience to say the least. I thought I had some sort of favoritism being an exotic, good looking black guy.

I never dated at all in high school, so had no idea what to expect in freshmen year, but I remember the first girls I ever talked to were Asian & they wanted nothing to do with me. I had a white girl that I befriended and at my first big social circle, she was my wing women & everything she told me to say seemed really good. I had no idea how to interact with women myself but the Asian girls still seemed just… indifferent, like they had no reaction to me & it wasn’t fun. Everyone else I encountered freshmen year was extremely social & fun to talk to.

It was probably because they knew I was talking to them with romantic intent & didn’t want to lead me on or had no interest. Then I asked a close white friend and he told me that Asian girls don’t like black guys, they are obsessed with whites, don’t take it personally. Some time later next semester, I got semi close to an Asian girl whose a friend of my best friend.

When we all hung out, she talks about the little things her boyfriend does that she doesn’t like but she gets very gushing about him anyway. Fast forward to sophomore second semester we were all hanging out in the student game room… she reads her phone text & begins crying & runs to the bathroom. My friend and I share a concerned face. Never knew what happened but I thought that this boyfriend must be a real catch. Until I saw his pictures and he was a very chubby, very average or a bit below average white guy. This girl was a 5ft Asian girl with perfect features everywhere, and had a very bubbly, love-able personality. Fast forward 2 years later, they break up. It’s revealed the dude she gave so much love to saw her as a fetish to release all his desires upon."

I am turning 28 in a few months, of course nearing my 30s, and I never had a real girlfriend before. I had some online things, but they all rejected me upon meeting in person for the first time. Meanwhile, I have watched all my former friends form serious relationships, get married, and most of them have kids now.

I am not the most attractive guy physically. I am short and overweight I admit. I am also "weird" to a lot of people. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have mental health issues too.

I haven't touched a girl since I was 20 (back in June 2015). I lost my virginity then to a 16 year old girl who was supposedly a virgin too at the time. I have only had sex exactly once in my lifetime. I have never actually "made love".

It saddens me because all my life I always wanted to have a girlfriend, wife, and kids of my own.

Really, I am seeking a decently attractive woman without a romantic past, but my days are numbered finding that I feel. That is a deal breaker to me. I feel I would be lucky to even find a good woman who has never been married at this point