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We were dating back when we were in our late teens and we were both in love. Shit happens and drama and we broke up really badly, i moved to an other country etc etc.

There have been a couple of times in the past that she would drunk text me and the next day she would be cold or straight ignore me. In 2019 I went back to visit my family and friends and a mutual friend told me she wanted to pick me up from the airport but he was against it and stopped her.

We talked slightly through social in 2023 since I talk with her brother rather frequently and she was pissed at me cause a girl was flirting me a lot. Most likely she heard about it from her brother.

Fast forward to this year, she suddenly sent me a message in February we had a rather long conversation, we talked about our lives how it is going, she told me about her relationship of eight years and how bad it was etc etc.

Three days ago she sent me a new message and almost right away she started talking about sex and such. I told her that this kind of behavior is stupid and she should be more considerate of her boyfriend, then she told me she broke up with her a few days after we talked on February.

I confronted her about the rather sudden sexual topic and she replied this is the best way to grab the attention of men and I replied yeah if they are desperate, otherwise it feels stupid and I was seriously thinking of blocking her.

The nest day she was asking me to talk on the phone and she was worried I wouldn't want to cause she was drunk last night and she blew it. The call was around thee hours long and she was telling me she liked my straightforward attitude, my humour etc etc.

It was rather fun I have to admit but she was really reserved cause she was worried I would get annoyed and hang up.

The day she sent me a few pics and was trying to revive a dead fb group that we both belong and included me in a post.

That night I sent her a message if she wanted to talk and she was rather distant.

What is going on?

Do most women today hate men or is it a vocal minority and/or mainly just a thing on social media?

Online I see both men hating women and women hating men and I find both really stupid. Both sexes are equally important and valuable and we are all human. However I've noticed that men that hate women usually get called out for it by society and rightfully so but there are so many women online saying things like men are rapists, all men are trash, kill all men and they don't get called out for it as much. I've heard some of them even say that misandry doesn't exist and they minimize things like violence and sexual assault against men and use misleading and biased statistics to justify their misandry. It's mostly on tiktok, instagram, threads, and twitter. For example there is this one popular artist/influencer on tiktok with 5 million followers (I hope most of them are bots) who posts content bashing men and in one video she was telling her followers to scam men and take their money and in another she said men should shut up or be castrated... It's honestly really disturbing and sickening that people like this have a following.

I hope that this is mainly a thing on the internet and most women aren't like this. I don't have a tiktok account but I have instagram and had threads and it's rampant on all of these platforms and the misandrist posts and comments get thousands of likes sometimes which boggles my mind. I hope they are bots or a vocal minority because otherwise it makes me lose hope for humanity. I'm probably gonna delete social media in general because it's not good for my mental health. I genuinely feel sick in my stomach seeing some of the posts and comments on there. Sometimes I think that this might be one of the things contributing to male suicide.