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The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

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Entertainment & Arts

23 Upcoming Films for 2023

Okay so there’s actually 24 films but 23 sounds so much better in the title lol. Which do you look forward to seeing FROM THE LIST BELOW? And Please do not come naming random crap that is not listed below. Doing so is...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Relationships

How far would you travel for love (rather than for work/business)?

I know the 'how far' (and how to measure if it was worth it) only from business/work side - as an IT engineer and then a consultant, I got both asked to travel far (USA) and decided yo do so myself (UK, Australia). Even...

Gibbons44

Xper 5 Age: 48

Dating

Should I tell her he cheated with me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

He was away at college, that is where I knew him from. We were kinda friendly acquaintances, but generally had some low key sexual tension. He began to express more clearly that he was

He was away at college, that is where I knew him from. We were kinda friendly acquaintances, but generally had some low key sexual tension. He began to express more clearly that he was interested in exploring that side with me. I told him I was seeing other people bc I didn’t want him to feel played, an he said it didn’t matter to him. Since I live 30 minutes from campus he just spent the night. Yes, we hooked up and we slept in the same bed—twice except we didn’t go all the way the second time. Also had a couple head sesh’s/FaceTime/sexting. He’d call me boo & baby & send cute emojis. But 3 times he’d delete or block me and then reappear claiming his phone was messed up and you know I wouldn’t delete you boo... He graduated this term and deleted me again an I didn’t hear from him for a bit. I thought we’d had a little misunderstanding an never got to say bye so I sent a fairly long text saying I understand if he’s moving forward but was sorry I didn’t get to say bye an I enjoyed our times together an he’s the best. He sent back kind of a formalish but friendly reply thanking me for helping on his journey and being there an time together. That I was the best and he’d never forget another me that I know that. Sent back a 💞 an we didn’t talk since.

Fast forward 2 months later this girl adds me on tiktok. I accept an add her back. It’s when I start watching her videos that I discover she’s been dating this guy before last semester even started. One even showed her gushing over the texts he’d sent her like the same months we were hanging. I still wonder what made her add me to begin with but here’s the problem. Clearly I was a fling it’s fine, but I feel bad for her. Obviously he was playing both sides of it an that’s probably why he’d delete me. Should I tell her, especially since I no longer have the texts that clearly show him cheating. Or should I just let it go as him deleting me with no further contact shows he’s straightened up and being loyal now?

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Guy's Behavior

Is this man interested?

Met a guy at a Meetup event. We briefly talked and I felt mutual attraction and chemistry. I messages him on the app and shorty asked if he wanted to attend a market event. He said yes, and gave me his #. It wasn't really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is this guy interested?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is this guy interested in developing a friendship?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Need help deciding whether I should contact her. She rejected me and at the end ghosted but I still think of her all the time?

SlavaUA

Xper 2 Age: 31

I started “seeing” this girl a couple months ago and it took a while but we started to hang out and have lots of sex. Talked about things that are more serious such as our past and

I started “seeing” this girl a couple months ago and it took a while but we started to hang out and have lots of sex. Talked about things that are more serious such as our past and what we’d possibly like for our futures individually or together. But I always saw in her that she was not very serious in actually getting to know me or be with me. She just had fun with me and pushed away anything that was below the surface, mostly. Then after a while of having sex, and meeting at our places and having few dates to bars or restaurants - she voiced her loss of interest in different ways and it hurt me and made me feel less than and at fault for being too serious or not enough, etc. So then I tried for about a week or maybe a bit more here and there to talk to her and make changes and scale back so that we can still see each other and have sex without expectations (basically I was willing to settle and sell myself short of what I really wanted/needed to feel good with someone). She still pushed me back and said we should split ways. I let her go. She then added me back on snap me a week later and tested all kind of stuff relating to having sex and how she misses me and wants me inside her and cuddle her, even started saying that she’s in love with me and asking me if I am in love with her. Etc. then I called her and found out that she was drunk and a little high. She was out of town for family Christmas. She told me that few weeks from now she wants to see me when she comes back. The next day was Christmas Eve and I called to wish her merry Christmas and all that. No answer. So I went no contact. A month goes by but she was still on my snap. Watching my stories. But she would never post none or had me restricted from seeing it. Then she started posting pics and I saw one where she was back out of town with some guys. No idea who they are. I still didn’t contact and stopped watching her stories. Then she deleted me after posting few more pics and I didn’t watch her story.

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Flirting

Girls, Is she shy and interested?

For over a year me and a girl at my gym would act in ways that may it seen we're interested in each other. We would stare at each other, she would watch me train. And stare at me in the mirror. Also if the gym was full,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do guys like it when girls text first?

So should a guy always be the first to text good morning? shouldn't it work both ways? He shows interest, texting Me through the day, talking about his day, etc and even asked me to play the game with him. It seems he's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Do you tolerate sexual frustration in a relationship?

When you are with someone that only thinks of themselves and is one sided , they deny you sex when you try to initiate it and make every excuse as to why they aren’t in the mood , but only come to you when they are in the...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Guy's Behavior

Help me please I need some honest advice?

If a man is not interested in you why do they still keep up with your life. I know it sound stupid but hear me out we live in 2023 they way people interact with each other has changed. I know it’s sounds stupid of me but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Entertainment & Arts

Do you think having a social media account for a celebrity could be a way to avoid paparazzis?

and paparazzis may have less interest in taking photos. Let me explain. Lets say a celebrity, a public figure, does not ahve any type of social media account because that celebirty hates internet and social media, he does...

Anonymous

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Entertainment & Arts

Watching

My review of the Showtime series "George & Tammy"

(TW: Drug Use, Mental Illness, Electroshock therapy, alcoholism, domestic violence, premature birth, gaslighting, and manipulation) The year is 1965. Tammy Wynette (Real name Virginia Pugh) moves to Nashville, Tennessee,...

smahala1991

Influencer Age: 35

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Girl's Behavior

Has her feelings towards me changed?

Bit of a long story before I start. Where I work a new girl has joined. She's essentiality my work neighbour. At first I had no romantic interest, our relationship was pure friendly. When I got to know her on a more...

Leeroh

Xper 2 Age: 24

Break Up & Divorce

He left because he felt it wasn’t going to work out even though nothing bad happened, thoughts?

We only been together for a short time but it seemed perfect to me. I gave everything I could, tried to show him he’s welcome in my life and appreciated. We only got into two small fights. The first we had a disagreement...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Girl looks at me, I look at her, what can I do?

Once in class, this girl TURNED HER HEAD BACK and looked at me for 40 seconds straight. I rule out the possibility that I was simply in her line of vision because she turned her head back deliberately. Thing is there was...

Daredevil9231

Xper 2 Age: 25

Relationships

My boyfriend lack of effort is really making me sad and I want to leave with the baby?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now... In the beginning I did love bomb. Because I wasn't receiving what I thought was interest from him like buying me things I ended up over extending myself and spoiling him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

BREAKDOWN: The Friend Zone

THE FRIEND ZONE refers to a situation where one person in a friendship wants to become more than friends with the other person, while the other person sees them only as a friend. The friend zone can also be a...

coachTanthony

Influencer Age: 55

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Travel

THE GREAT ESCAPE (Skyline Edition)

Thank you Red Blaze for inspiring me with your lovely question. Some days, I just lie back on my bed and admire all the different artwork around me... some being oil paintings, prints, and so on. The beauty of it all...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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