Search Results: avoiding conversation

My crush asked his friend to tell me to go and talk to my crush?

I was avoiding my crush for a week, haven’t really been talking to him or acknowledging him. I used to say goodbye whenever I was about to leave for the day. And now I rock up to work and my coworker friend who has a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does he walk away when I join the conversation?

There's this guy that I'm into who is new this year, I've spoken to him twice, the first time he approached me first and asked me if I was in a club as part of our assigned activity. The second time, I approached him and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Do you still believe in marriage or do you prefer to remain a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship?

What do you all think this modern days. Is it worth it now? Especially the high rate of divorces are almost to the rooftop. This rate flourishes after COVID. I personally have encountered few people having their own...

Walt832

Xper 7 Age: 36

Why would a woman avoid eye contact with a certain woman but not with others?

A female coworker tends to stare other people in the eye during conversations but with me she can’t hold it and most of the time looks at the ground. When we are in a conversations with another person she only looks at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does she only talk to me in a group? Is it fake?

There’s this girl at my job. She’s younger and lives with her boyfriend. Last year she was flirting with me pretty heavily but earlier this year we had a dustup; I raised my voice pointing out that she was going out of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to subtly make someone understand that you aren't interested in them?

So, I've a classmate who I catch almost everyday looking at me. Since I'm a bit reserved and introverted, people from the opposite sex don't easily talk to me. However recently there was a project in which he needed help...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

How should I cope with rejection from a girl I really care about?

Could you girls pls help me? A girl I used 2 work with and consider a friend was about 2 change her workplace. I had always liked her as a friend, but 2 mo before she left it turned into something deeper. I thought it was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he stare at me but then avoids me when I try to talk to him?

There’s a guy who stares at me all the time and watches me but when I try to make conversation he avoids me and scurries off.

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think his intensions are?

In the past years, we’ve kept up with the holiday and birthday texts but nothing beyond. My ex and I no longer live in the same city but did speak on the phone recently. I made it very clear that I was not intending this...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do you ever find yourself in a relationship rut?

I feel like it doesn’t even have to be a relationship with you significant person. It could even be that one friend. A time where you feel like you’re tired, slightly annoyed or even just generally avoiding the person....

electromagnetic

Master Age: 34

Gave her the choice?

I recently went on a date with a girl I met on Hinge. We met just four days after matching. The date went okay; it wasn’t quite like my previous experiences, but it was alright. Towards the end, our connection felt a bit...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can anyone's confidence be so low?

Recently, I started thinking about my life and things I wanted to do. I turned 28, and I didn't do anything. I didn't live my life. My extreme lack of confidence has been making my life really difficult in every...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If I'm not in a relationship or married by a certain age, am I defective?

I'm 26 years old, turning 27 in a few months. I've had a handful of sexual experiences, but nothing that resembles an actual relationship. Looking at my friends list, people I've graduated high school with, they all seem...

Korvustheraven

Xper 2 Age: 29

Why do I keep attracting unavailable women?

There's this other girl at my job that doesn't work for the same company but works for the building that my company rents out. So I would notice every time I see her she would be glancing up at me multiple times when...

KazDillinger

Xper 3 Age: 39

Why does she act so inconsistent? Why not avoid me more if we’re not on good terms?

This girl at work (who lives with her boyfriend) was going out of her way to flirt with me; (compliments, collar-fixing, blowing a kiss, touching my face, following me in the parking lot to ambush me at my car and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

The Terrible-ish Things I Wore in the 2000s

I consider the 2000s up there with the worst decade IN MY OPINION for fashion outside of the 70s. Somebody once described women's fashion in the 2000s as a hooker walks into Walmart and wears everything in the store at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Would introverts use a dating app or website?

I understand that introverts aren't social animals, but do they have ways of finding love without dating apps or websites, or do they use it to avoid direct conversations?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Disappointed, he has a girlfriend what to do please?

For months, I've been bewildered by the mixed signals he's been sending – intense glances, choosing to sit near me, and often choosing to be just close observing me. His actions have been a bit awkward and unsettling and...

ouissa

Xper 2 Age: 23