I text her a good start but then refrained from contacting her (I felt heartbroken, missed her every day). After 1 mo, I sent her an email, thanked her for her honesty and kind reaction. I wrote that I respect her feelings and would like 2repair our friendship, bc I value her as a friend (this is true;I care about her deeply;but I know that I can‘t change the way she feels)
She didn‘t reply 2 my email…it‘s been 4mo and I still struggle with my emotions. I have not tried 2call or contact her, wanted 2 give her space and I think she would have replied if she had intended to.. her silence is taking a toll on me, makes me ask a lot of questions (why did I have to tell her? did she ever care about our friendship? is it supposed 2end like this?) and I don‘t know why she thinks she has 2 ignore me.
I understand that I should move on, forget about a relationship. However, I am surprised and struggling that this broke our friendship (her reaction and our conversation did not feel like this at all)…I can‘t help but care about her. What would you do? would you try to recontact her?
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