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The Mentality Behind Ghosting, How to Recover From Getting Ghosted, and Why You Should Not Ghost!

Foreword: This applies to both friendships and dating. Ghosting, in this instance, refers to the sudden cessation of contact via any means, such as text or in-person contact, for any reason. Disclaimer: All opinions and...
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What should I do if people keep telling me it seems like I don’t care?

This is the only message I have that can provide some clarity on what I mean when I say people tell me I seem like I don’t care. But it’s not the only person who has told me this. What bothers me is that I asked this guy...
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Would you rekindle a relationship with your ex friend or lover if u had a chance?

have you ever had a crush or friend you had answers you never had answers? almost relationships with them? wanted to know how they felt but never asked. what happened and what did you do? i had crushes where we were...
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Ever had a fantasy that you know is impossible but you brain just won’t let go of?

I have a simple “fantasy” if getting closure with an ex from many years ago. I do not fantasize about getting back together or being friends. Even if she miraculously asked me to reunite a damaged part of me would never...
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How should you transition from a lover to your soulmate?

When I was still a student I had a girl called Anna I was seeing quite casually over a year. We had a decent bond but the sexual chemistry and the safe space we created for each other was what kept us going. Moving to a...
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Should I send closure?

It's been some time and I still have a lot to say. Obviously I want things to work out, but I accept that they likely won't. Should I send my final thoughts and be free of the situation? Will it change anything other than...
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I used to like this guy a lot and never got closure?

I don’t think about him as much. Is it best to forget about him and move on?
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Asking for clarity again?

for sometime this yr i was involved with a guy and recently expressed that i’d like to continue seeing him non exclusively. he asked for time to think about it, we never discussed it again, we also never met up again but...
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Should I ask again or not?

So I had this friend who's all flirty with me. When I asked him if he likes me, he made a long pause before telling me I'm too direct and asked me why I asked him that and I told him he's making me confused. He looked...
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Girl who gave me a very bad friéndzone experience 12 years ago messaged me out of nowhere on FB. Just blow her off or say my piece?

Way back in 2010 I dated a girl for about 2 months and she suddenly stopped contacting me. Two weeks later she was dating someone else. I didn’t say anything to her for a few months because I was a professional athlete at...
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How import is it to you to have closure in your life and when do you say it's time to just move on?

How important is closure to you in life? Do you think closure allows you to move on or without it do you feel like you are stuck forever in a situation place or time without it?
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Why won’t my adult son tell me about his breakup? He usually talks to me about these things?

He dumped the girl he was dating over text and did not give her a reason/closure.
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How to digest his cheating? What should I do when he's behaving like this?

He dated me for a week. He blocked me. He started dating other girls. When I approached him for a closure he said that he loves me. Again he used to ignore me, avoid me for few days and suddenly blocked me without any...
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Have you ever felt that you weren’t meant to be in your boyfriend’s future? That maybe you’re just an obstacle? Should I leave the father of my child?

This is a topic I have dwelled on for so long. I have been vocal, for 7 years now. It’s hard to explain to people close to me (26F) of my problems because my partner (27M) isn’t the “bad guy”. A likeable, mellow, and...
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Would you confront the person or cut them off without giving them closure?

Been seeing a guy for 6 months. He slowly distanced himself, but would still see me. Just not as often. I have discovered he's messaging and seeing another woman. Should I confront him then end it, or just cut all contact...
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Why would a woman tell you she loves you then goes starts a relationship with someone else?

She blocked me on facebook but still has me on snapchat. I sent snaps days before she blocked me and has recently been looking at my snaps. She just looked at my last one i sent last week a few days ago. Is she curious? I...
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Where were they? What can be said about this?

Where were the 'deities' of the 'peoples' who were nearly, completely, eliminated? The ancestors and spirits, of the Native Americans The Judean God and spirits, of the Jews The Gods and ancestors, of the Rwandans There...
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Are people who get screwed over in dating more likely to screw over other people or think twice if given the opportunity?

I’ve tried to take lessons from bad past experiences and not do the same to someone else. For example I had one ex girlfriend ghosted me after dating for 9 months after a minor argument. A few years later I found myself...
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I’ve tried to take lessons from bad past experiences and not do the same to someone else. For example I had one ex girlfriend ghosted me after dating for 9 months after a minor Show More
They usually get worse at treating other people
They usually get better at treating other people since they know how it feels
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