Would you rekindle a relationship with your ex friend or lover if u had a chance?

[bunnyboo364]

have you ever had a crush or friend you had answers you never had answers? almost relationships with them? wanted to know how they felt but never asked. what happened and what did you do?

i had crushes where we were friends and i felt like they had feelings for me too but i was too scared to ask. friends who randomly ghosted me and i wanted to know why, i wanted closure. i’m currently in my first year of college, i’m a few hours from my home town so i don’t see these people anymore. part of me wants to get closure. part of me wants to do this to see if our relationships would rekindle? what would u do in this situation?

[NathanDavis]

with a friend, yes... but there is no chance, she hates me

with my ex-girlfriends no... I don't really think I would ever go back to a relationship with them because we already had the closure and moved on, besides... we are great friends today and that has an enormous value in out lives already

[Guy13]

I did it once and it did not work out. The same issues still existed a year later. Good luck with it.

[Summeroflove]

If I would get back with a ex entirely depends on why we broke up and where we are now

[OlderAndWiser]

What you really want is confirmation of your intuition and judgment, right?

[Mansearching]

Don't need to read below the question. The answer is no. HELLLLL NNNNOOOO!!! Reason being is friends that talk to you the ghost you slowly or right away weren't really friends and when you walkin on lover cheating (in the middle of it) they don't love you. Its negativity in your life you don't need. P-O-P always.

[SnowedIn]

No if they were an ex for a reason, like we consciously decided to end the relationship. They're an ex for a reason.

Maybe, possibly, cautiously yes if it was for something like one of us moved away and has now returned. Maybe.

[slatyb]

A relationship? Maybe if I weren't married. A friendship? Definitely.

[AdithyaR]

Nope. Trying things again with an ex is like reading the same book and expecting a different ending.
It'll never end up right.

[Caliguy88]

There are 2 I’d try agin. One I don’t think would work and one I think would…. Or could. Still close with both of them.

[loveslongnails]

No... my ex's are ex's for a reason. I don't want to rehash anything with them again.

[dudeinohio]

No I would not. I always move forward, never backward.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Too many bad memories

[RealMarek]

Nope. My ex is an ex for a reason.

[Phoenix98]

Nope they are all ex's for a reason.

[collie22]

Nope