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This year I decided to move in with my Grandma and cousins. All my cousins are the same age, we grew up together and get along well. One of my cousins has a best friend who we see regularly and I grew quite fond of him. I had pushed my feelings to the side for a while but as our conversations with each other grew more frequent, my feelings grew. So one day, I confessed and he has also admitted to liking me too for a while.

We talked/flirted heavily with each other for like the first week after we confessed. We're both hopeless romantics, both fell hard and talked about a future together. However, he wanted to tell his best friend (my cousin) what was going on first before taking things further. Needless to say, things didn't go well. There's a 'rule' that my cousin's friends shouldn't go for close family and vice versa because in simple terms, it would complicate things. Also, I found out that this guy has a lot of issues in the romance dept and has led girls on in the past and his ex is kinda still in the picture (I've heard this from my cousins) there's a toxic pattern which he has never learned from apparently😭 He has told me that after talking to my cousin, he realised he wasn't ready to date despite his eagerness before. So we ended things on good terms and stopped talking. He's also not going to visit us as regularly.

Its been a week and my heart is SO heavy. I miss him so much. I grieve the future we could have had together cause I've literally never clicked with someone so fast.

I've talked to other close family about it and they think its none of my cousin's business, also dont understand why we can't figure things out together and believe my cousin is being manipulative. But my cousin would know his friend best right? There's also that bro code. I dont wanna ruin a close friendship.

But I don't know, should I text him? I miss talking to him, but it might further complicate an already fragile situation. Help?

So 6 months ago me and my ex boyfriend broke up in bad terms
He deactivated his fb after we broke up

My name is Amy
Anyway so outta nowhere he messaged my best friend saying
"Tell your sl*ut friend amy to wash her mouth when she's having sex with her new man since she sucked my dick before🤣🤣"

We checked he reactivate his fb and so we checked his facebook profile

He has been uploading shirtless photos of himself and putting captions like:
"Been lifting weights.. stronger than ever.. as long as I dont get distracted by hoe*s😂"
And
"I will show how crazy I am"

Are those captions directly for me?
Is he not over me?

Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago
It was a bad break up

He deactivated his fb after we broke up
Yesterday he got back on facebook

My name is Amy
Anyway so outta nowhere he messaged my best friend saying
"Tell your sl*ut friend amy to wash her mouth when she's having sex with her new man since she sucked my dick before🤣🤣"

We checked his facebook profile

He has been uploading shirtless photos of himself and putting captions like:
"Been lifting weights.. stronger than ever.. as long as I dont get distracted by hoe*s😂"
And
"I will show how crazy I am"

Are those captions directly for me?