Search Results: if you text the guy first all the time

Is this normal or understandable?

Basically, matched with this guy on a dating app (non-mainstream, surprisingly) and we’ve been texting back and forth for about 5 months now, no first date yet. He was upfront with me about having a 5 y/o daughter and her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, is he playing games or am I overreacting?

I am talking to a guy now who originally said they want a consistent hookup. Keyword: consistent. He believes in communication, doesn’t want any drama or games. All of which I agreed to. Hung out a few times, things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, If a guy is just interested in sex, he wouldn’t spend his time texting with you everyday would he?

I should’ve been more frank on my previous question. We met on tinder. We met up had bomb ass sex and seen each other 3-4 times since then. We talk everyday via text and when I go see him, it’s not just fucking then...

Lunaslullaby

Xper 1 Age: 30

Was he actually serious about a relationship or wanted to get laid?

So I met this guy on a dating app. We went on 4 dates and date 5 is when we had sex He asked me out first, we had dinner. The date went fine, a day later he messages me again asking for a second date and we went to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think this is?

There is a boy in my class who is my first guy friend. Yesterday, when we were at the cafeteria, one of his friends told me that the boy was caring for me and thinking about me. We were about to watch a movie at my place...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does he have a crush on me or not?

We all studied at my place for an exam, and this boy came too. We are like friends. When we were having a break, I gave them some cakes that I had made. And when they were about to go, one of his friends told everyone...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Don’t have a lot of experience with men and this first one has me confused and sad?

I have a friend and she was studying abroad for a year and while she was gone her older brother began to hit me up to hang out and one thing led to another and I lost my virginity to him. We had sex several times over...

Tryingtobehappy9

Xper 2 Age: 26

Do I bring it up or do I let it go?

I’ve been having casual sex with a guy I met on hinge. He is a nice guy and the first guy that really made me feel like my body is all perfect. Anyway, he has been canceling on our plans and we agreed that we should be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I jealous or he doesn’t put me as a priority?

hey guys, my fiance and i have been together for 7 years. these past few months we have been on bumpy roads and it hasn’t been fun. i feel like recently he has been choosing his friends over me, here’s why. he goes to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

That girl/guy you dated... wasn't your date? How you feel?

On the radio, on the way to work, i listened to this station about how to folks had a first date and didn't continue it and the radio hosts find out why. It's a bit dramatic for my tastes so I skip it but this time... it...

Sour-rose

Guru Age: 31

On the radio, on the way to work, i listened to this station about how to folks had a first date and didn't continue it and the radio hosts find out why. It's a bit dramatic for my

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Why did he ghost me after being so keen on the first date?

I went on a date last night with a guy. We were texting for a few weeks before the date. We seemed to get on really well over text and his replies were quite frequent. He seemed really keen on the date and was...

HEaven293

Xper 1 Age: 34

Seeing a guy for two months?

Hi guys, First of all i want to let yous know that i have anxious attachment style which is i need reassurance all the time. I am seeing someone for 2 months now & we always see eachother once every weekend i never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Is my husband’s friend interested in me?

Hey guys! So my husband’s friend is married but he would call me beautiful in front of his wife and my husband. One time my husband and I dropped off something to him at the this place where also his other friends were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What's your opinion on my story?

I liked a guy my whole entire senior year in hs. I've known since forever that he's not a good guy but hey I just wanted to give it the benefit of the doubt. I involved myself with him by texting him first every single...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he hid his instagram story from me?

I’ve been texting this guy for a couple of months, he goes to college so he’s very busy with the papers he has to write and the books they have to read so we don’t go out a lot, plus he lives two hours away from me, but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I get Back together with my ex or love my 20s to the fullest and develop my character?

I contacted my ex whom I’ve been broken up with for 3 months now. I’ve missed him and he’s open to meet up again and maybe figure something out. But now I’m unsure about what i ACTUALLY want. I love the freedom I have now...

Amanda_from_denmark

Xper 4 Age: 23

Should I get back together with my ex or keep my freedom and I can live my 20s to the fullest without regret?

Amanda_from_denmark

Xper 4 Age: 23

Girls, Would you want date a guy you dont really know online?

I have a crush on this girl who lives across the world ( she's tiktok dancer). We were cool at first then she does typical confession that has a crush on me. We got a chance to get to know each other better, text...

Kokoroho

Xper 4 Age: 21