Seeing a guy for two months?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys,

First of all i want to let yous know that i have anxious attachment style which is i need reassurance all the time.
I am seeing someone for 2 months now & we always see eachother once every weekend i never spent a penny in our date but sometimes i buy him snacks & got goodies when i visited UK. Last week we had a get away for 2 nights and we had sex for the first time but he told me he likes me & wanna be w me. But after we had sex i just feel like were just gonna be fuckbuddys? Even he told me he likes me.
We always text like good morning etc.
Am i just over thinking? Does he really likes me and will go to the next step which is relationship? 😭

[RoseySarah]

Good worry now has his texting changed or other things changed?

Good thing to over think about a lot of guys do that!

What would happen if you say that you two should stop sex until you two can be closer?

More importantly was it good for you? Did you cry? Did he comfort you? Was he sweet or pushym

[Asker]

His text didn't change at all since we started seeing each other & we really dont comfort each other as i dont really show my emotions to him as i dont want to be " too clingy" dramatic" for him 💀

[RoseySarah]

Well maybe hold back and see how he treats you? Does he love you or want you to think it for sex?
Make him earn it and build trust

[Asker]

Were not in that stage yet but we both know we like eachother.

Yesterday he came to my place we had sex, cuddled and kissed, the next day i offered to order food for us but what he did is he did it himself.

So i am thinking he probably doesn't want me to pay for it.

What i am gonna do i think probably not be available for him all the time like make other plans on weekends w my friends and that will make him miss me. What do u think? 😭

[RoseySarah]

Wait not at what stage? Dating sex... Official?

I think it's a good idea still live your own life. Cause you're I'll have to with him

So keep focusing on you!

[RoseySarah]

Not in the love stage?

[Asker]

He told me the reason why he's seeing me is to be his girlfriend probably he wants to get to know me a bit more to make it official? Tbh i am not sure 😭 because its my first time seeing someone i dont know whats the difference of it from "dating"?

[RoseySarah]

Well have that talk with him! Cause a goal of just girlfriend is sex and a short 2 relationship.

Well make sure you have a pill or condom! For you always none let me just once get you pregnant!

I think you should get busy

Seeing some one is dating usually with a goal of being married or long term 6 years

All that you did hope he sees you as his girlfriend or Cates some

Be as needy as you need it's your feelings and he needs to see who he is seeing not a mask 🎭

[Yesdarlingmoon]

Hey girly, listen stable relationships are based on communication okay? I don't think asking us will give you the truth but him. If you don't want to be f buddies make that clear, you deserve more than that.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Sounds like things are off to a good start. See where it goes. 🙂

[ThrillSeeker01]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Avicenna]

Yes, youvare probably just overthinking badly

[Anonymous]

How can we know? You are the only one that knows this.

[Iron_Man]

Big mistake having sex you hardly know how