i was seeing this guy for 2 months. he has never had a thing or a stable relationship going on longer than a couple of months. i come from long term relationships that was mature my side its just the other one that screwed up every time. we have a good time always
We told each other that we really like one other. but to me it felt like he was scared of showing the way he feels about me bc he was afraid of getting hurt again. i talked about it w him that i am also afraid of whatever could happen yet i still come out of my way to say how i feel about him but i don't see that from him makes me question his side.
all his life he has never had anything good going on and he thought he was ready to be in a stable relationship with someone and then he met me. he said he knew if we were to start a relationship it will last and i am the type of person he wants forever with, but he said he is not sure if its the right time in his life he should be in a committed relationship. he apparently got things to figure out his career get his life together. and he's scared that he might get bored of me and not like me as much as i do. and for once things sth could go somewhere for him, he just dont know how to go on w it. i told him i dont feel like thats a commitment issue and he is afraid of his own feelings he should work on it. and he told me will and he also overthinks a lot.
i was like its okay i am not willing to jump into a relationship and suddenly commit just yet either. we can continue to see each other and see where it goes. We decided not expect anything to happen but hope that it works out. i started to overthink again bct he could get bored of me. i wanted certainty of things being permanent w him while he just wanted to chill atm not ready for a relationship. we clearly want different things and our feelings werent changing on it. as a clean break i ended then and there. i really want it to work out still do. and im wondering if i should wait around for him to come back
We told each other that we really like one other. but to me it felt like he was scared of showing the way he feels about me bc he was afraid of getting hurt again. i talked about it w him that i am also afraid of whatever could happen yet i still come out of my way to say how i feel about him but i don't see that from him makes me question his side.
all his life he has never had anything good going on and he thought he was ready to be in a stable relationship with someone and then he met me. he said he knew if we were to start a relationship it will last and i am the type of person he wants forever with, but he said he is not sure if its the right time in his life he should be in a committed relationship. he apparently got things to figure out his career get his life together. and he's scared that he might get bored of me and not like me as much as i do. and for once things sth could go somewhere for him, he just dont know how to go on w it. i told him i dont feel like thats a commitment issue and he is afraid of his own feelings he should work on it. and he told me will and he also overthinks a lot.
i was like its okay i am not willing to jump into a relationship and suddenly commit just yet either. we can continue to see each other and see where it goes. We decided not expect anything to happen but hope that it works out. i started to overthink again bct he could get bored of me. i wanted certainty of things being permanent w him while he just wanted to chill atm not ready for a relationship. we clearly want different things and our feelings werent changing on it. as a clean break i ended then and there. i really want it to work out still do. and im wondering if i should wait around for him to come back
