hey guys, my fiance and i have been together for 7 years. these past few months we have been on bumpy roads and it hasn’t been fun. i feel like recently he has been choosing his friends over me, here’s why. he goes to work right. he won’t call me or text me when he gets out but goes straight to his friends house. when i try calling him he won’t answer, but when he does he so happens to be busy. if and when we hangout we just hangout at his house. he doesn’t take me out on dates, but will happily go out to eat with his friends. when i ask him if he wants to hangout he says yes but to go to his friends house and we’ll hangout there. i understand that guys need guy time, but it’s every day he hangs out with his friends. we barely hangout because he chooses them over me. he only ever calls me when he leaves his friends house at like 10-11pm and im in bed half asleep by then. i work from 8am-5pm Monday-Friday. i wake up at6:35am to get to work on time. i hate how our relationship has become. i tell him all the time that he chooses his friends over me and he says it’s not true. i’ve sat there and watched him choose his friends and i stay because i hope one day he will choose me. but it looks like it that won't happen. if i needed help and his mom or his best friend need help he will help them and not me. i know it in my core he won't choose me. i’ve asked him yesterday who he would choose first between his mom, his wife and his daughter and he said his mom. ngl i was kinda hurt. she has a husband for a reason. we are supposed to be creating a family together and he will always choose his mom? i understand moms are so important in a man’s life, but you are supposed to be there for your wife? or am i wrong? anyway, yes i feel like he will leave me in back burner. i’m 32 with no kids yet. i feel like he wants to stay in this relationship to waste my time. i’m not happy as i once was and it shows. all we’ve done recently too is just argue.
Am I jealous or he doesn’t put me as a priority?
