I should’ve been more frank on my previous question. We met on tinder. We met up had bomb ass sex and seen each other 3-4 times since then. We talk everyday via text and when I go see him, it’s not just fucking then leaving. We sit around for couple hours and talk. Again text everyday. He always wishes me good morning and started saying goodnight sweetie recently. We talk about pretty much anything and everything. He’s dated some crazy ass girls and told me straight up he was tryna avoid that shit. Which, I’m not like those girls he’s dated previously. Anyways, he told me he wanted to get to know me more before and that I had “potential” I assume that meant as in dating wise. I know I can please him and he pleases me sexual wise. When I go over there he was putting his dog up but this last time he didn’t. He left him out and I got to meet him and play with him. We all just sit around after we fucked and goofed off and me and him talked. He was acting all jittery and nervous the first few times. When I first get there, he always hugs me. And I don’t mean just a hug, it’s more like embracing. I need opinions from guys on how y’all are with girls you’re actually into and not just sexually attracted to. Please give me some opinions and thoughts. TIA 😊
Guys, If a guy is just interested in sex, he wouldn’t spend his time texting with you everyday would he?
What Guys Said
Gee, I've never seen this movie before... he is enjoying pretty much full girlfriend benefits with you, it's all good! He even lef his dog out so I could meet him! He started saying goodnight sweetie... Blah blah blah. Bottom line: he wants all of the benefits of a committed relationship without any of the work. As long you keep giving him free 🥧 pie he will probably stick around. But if he wanted to be in an exclusive relationship with you, he would be.
Gee, are you just sweet as pie. He’s got 3 kids. And I also have a kid. Neither one of us want to jump straight into a full blown relationship before we know for sure neither one of us are crazy. His ex is a narcissist and so was mine. I was in a sexually assaulted mentally and physically abused all in a years time. He always talks to me when I’m having a “moment” His last ex tried to full blown fuck him in front of his kids and fit his sister. So, both of us are trying to be kinda careful there. really don’t think it’s just about sex..
Okay, you are getting one side of the story with his ex, keep that in mind. Once you give it up for free guys have no incentive to upgrade the relationship. That's why they typically don't.
Sounds like he wants the emotional connection with you as well. If he was just after sex, you guys would bang and then part ways, he wouldn’t be interested in chatting with you for a couple hours in addition. So it sounds like he’s into you