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In relationships, I attach importance to character harmony and the similarity of our lifestyles rather than physical characteristics.
There are no men around me who suit me in this regard. For this reason, I search for men I don't know on social media etc., find out that I am compatible with them and become platonic. And I can't reach anyone, I'm also a shy person.
What should I do

So this question came to my mind while answering @date_a_snob question:
Are you a girly girl or a tomboy? ↗

Often some typical personality traits are a contrast to each other, and most of the time they are. In some cases a part of each clashing personality can be combined in one person. I think you can find traces of this in every person but how extreme do you think they clash within you?
It can be more of a thing between different times, different friend groups, or are you just able to adapt to situations.
Examples of this could be a 'girly girl', who also is an outdoorsy person, not shy to work in the garden or even woods. An obviously logical person that for the right topics can get super emotional. A person always tries to be the focal point of a party but when in private acts caring and selfless.
Just random quick examples and under the right circumstances not clashing at all. Depending on the person they can seem completely non fitting. Sometimes you may even realize that yourself.

This whole thing is based on stereotypes. Voting yourself higher is not a negative thing to do, and maybe just be, because you know yourself better than others. It can also be the case, that others have told you without you seeing it in yourself.
This is all feeling based and even if others told you it doesn't mean they are 100% correct.
Keep in mind a person can NOT be 'wrong' because of this!!!
Clashes if handled well can lead to new bridges being built between other groups of people.