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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Older man at work - I like him but do you think he likes me?
I’m 33 and he is 53. I never thought I would feel this way about an older man but I like him a lot. I was immediately attracted to him when I first met him 6 years ago not only his looks but his personality too. We became...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, would it turn you off if a guy told you he loves flowers?
I'm pretty sure though that a lot of women in this platform will just laugh at a man who likes flowers because apparently, women always receive them. A man receiving flowers will be at his death bed probably because women...
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Xper 1 Age: 27 What do you think of guys that study/studied computer science?
I've been hearing that it's a turn-off lately
ClassicDropout
Xper 6 Age: 29 Ladies if a man hadn't had sex in a long time and didn't have a high body count could you still be with him and/or marry him?
Right now it is 8 years going on 9 in several months. I ask not so much that I am concerned about purely sex. It is more so my concerns about how a woman will view me when I have to tell her the truth. Because I have been...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this aspect of our relationship toxic?
To preface, we’ve known each other for a year (we went on dates, it was a situationship, he wasn’t ready for me to be his girlfriend due to him wanting to advance in life first, he was doing the boyfriend duties and we...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it common to just get ignored whenever you ask "hot strangers" for help?
when I get lost or am completely new to an establishment, I usually grab the nearest person to ask for directions. There were 3 times where I attempted to ask for directions to really attractive men. I never intended to...
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(36-45) Is it safe to meet up in a hotel with a man I haven’t yet met but have talked with online?
Please read this before answering. We met on a social media (non dating) app. We really hit it off online. Talking all day, up all night, so many similarities, etc. We have exchanged Snapchats and he has sent me videos...
Anonymous
(30-35) TW- Was I R@ped?
I have been SA'ed by 3 guys and 2 of them r@ped me or i think it was. This took place at college where I would be dropped off and picked up. I Was alone from 6am-8pm everyday On campus with Nobody to actually talk to or...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my ex friend blaming me for sending out her nudes and not her ex boyfriend she's been messing with online?
So I had a friend I helped out a lot who turned on me yet agin after getting a new boyfriend. She has come back every year begging for help with new issues she created for herself. With the worse issues being 1. Raped by...
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Xper 1 Age: 24 Is my boyfriend wrong for needing reassurance that I won’t cheat back on him?
So my boyfriend of 3 years got caught cheating with his ex. We’re working it out. However, I recently admitted to him that I briefly thought about cheating back as revenge. It was a thought that popped up in the midst of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is a guy with a fish pictures such a big turn off to women?
When I see a guy with a fish picture I think to myself " there goes a good upstanding gentleman who has a hobby that can provide sustenance for himself" I don't know why it would be a red flag
chris_987
Yoda Age: 38 Guys, have you ever dated a girl more kinky than you?
What was her kink and did it put you off or turn you on?
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Yoda Age: 37 Am I wrong for telling my girlfriend that it's both wrong and inappropriate for her to be spending the night with her male friends?
We have been together for over a year and as both adults have always been okay with the other being friends with the opposite gender. Both of us are service industry and because of that are more night time people. But...
Anonymous
(36-45) How and Should I approach him about his lie?
5 year relationship. I've caught him in little lies before but hey everyone lies sometimes. But tonight I had a weird gut feeling. We typically see each other every wed night. But this week he told me on Sunday he had to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do funeral processions in your area drive the hearse by the deceased house in between the church & the cemetery? Everyone or just 1st responders?
Full disclosure: I am an alien and I DO NOT UNDERSTAND MANY FUNERARY RITES OF HUMANS. In the NYC tri-state area, (maybe the Northeast USA in general - I don't know) they take the dead body & (whole train of cars)...
DrPepper12
Master Age: 53 How do I make my curly hair turn straight?
First of all I am sick of being insulted and rated on my appearance just because I don't have the magical straight hair that God gave every other woman and second IAM TIRED OF BEING RECONGIZED EVERYWHERE. Since I don't...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, why do some of you post cringe pictures on dating sites? How do you want guys to reply to them?
I see this mostly on Hinge and Tinder. For instance, I’ll see a woman sitting on the toilet or talking about poop. Why post things like that? Are you trying to turn guys off? What would you want a guy to say to that picture?
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you call a guy that twists the truth and actually believes it?
So it’s a little complicated, I have been friends with this guy since 15, we are now 34. We have always been close but ended moving to different countries in 2010, we lost contact and got into relationships and then...
Anonymous
(36-45) Church women, how do you like to be approached? If you reject a guy is it okay for him to talk to other women at the same church?
I just officially became a member of a new church I started attending 3 months ago. I notice that this church has quite a few attractive single ladies. A couple have waved or smiled at me from across the sanctuary. One in...
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