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What can you do if you can't move on from someone and you keep breaking no contact but they have no problem losing you like you never mattered?

I have been crying for days and I feel like I'm losing my mind over this guy and I can't go on a day without crying. We've been dating for 9 months and although we weren't exclusive, we were loyal to each other for that...

mindymint03

Xper 2 Age: 28

Should I suggest breaking up with my boyfriend now we’re going to have to do long distance?

Hi everyone! So I’m currently in a bit of a predicament…. I’m currently 22 and I’m about to finish college having been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years (we met in college so have always been just down the street from each...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Breaking up with my boyfriend? what does his response mean?

My boyfriend and i got into an heated argument where i told him how i really feel. I told him i felt as is he was selfish. And he responded with “ Love that you keep it real you said what you said now I just wanna...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do if I was planning on breaking up with my boyfriend but he just surprised me with flowers and gifts?

I asked for a 2 week break because I was contemplating on breaking up with him bc I felt like we were incompatible and I was growing out of this relationship. But then at the same time I also still love him too. After 1...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was it a misunderstanding or an excuse to break up?

My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me after a misunderstanding. He felt that I was seeing someone else for some reason for the past few days. I tried to explain it I wasn’t but he didn’t believe me so I went along...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

How do I handle my mother working in a mental hospital?

My mother who’s nearly 60 is starting a job in a mental hospital, the adult extended stay unit. I’ve been in a mental hospital once, had a PTSD reaction (Witnessed murder more than once.) And it didn’t seem too violent....

blissinanarchy1

Xper 7 Age: 26

How do I get myself back out there?

Just before Christmas my boyfriend of 4 years dumped me. I was completely heart broken we were meant to be finally buying a house a together and I really thought he was going to be my future. But one day he just sat me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m pregnant with this guys baby - he wants to keep it but I hear he’s abusive?

I’ve been seeing this guy for 3 months. That is it 3 months. I don’t know everyrhjng about him that I’d like too. Also from breaking the news that I’m breaking with him to a friend she knows his ex and apparently he used...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I need some advice, I love this woman so much and its a classic you dont know what you have until its gone?

I was initially going out with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. I ended up breaking up with her because I was unsure if she was the one or not. Anyway being apart of the same friendship circle, we ended up occasionally seeing...

MrMikee

Xper 2 Age: 29

Dating

Men: does anyone with experience know why an ex would talk to me when he’s away from his new girlfriend?

It’s general conversation and polite compliments that seem to want to maintain things on good terms, nothing sexual (not now he’s dating someone else). But when he’s with her he’s more dismissive (don’t get me wrong, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Long Distance and Fading of feelings?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and he went off to study abroad. The first time we started talking he was abroad too but then he came home for Christmas and we made so many wild, romantic experiences...

zauyy

Xper 5 Age: 24

Dating

My girlfriend keeps having mental breakdowns about the future. What should I do?

My (M22) girlfriend (F24) doesn't have a driver's license and works at a warehouse. We've been dating for over 2 years, and during that time, she's postponed getting her driver's license. She doesn't exactly need it right...

green_shell

Xper 1 Age: 25

Too busy after Spring Break?

A guy (22) and me (23) have gone on four really amazing dates. After the third date he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend but has to wait until he graduates college in two months and wants to process a few things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

HELP. Recent break up, any advice is welcome. How do I emotionally survive this?

Hi everyone, I will try to make this short. I recently broke up from a 5 year relationship. There were many issues, long story short, there was toxic dynamic where she was constantly breaking set boundries, but I couldnt...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I feel stupid for sending my “friend” a heartfelt apology even though she was in the wrong. Now she’s saying bad things about me. How can I forget it?

So basically I dropped a friend because she was super toxic. I blocked her everywhere and decided to send her a text just outlining why I was breaking up with her and I don’t think it went through (but I don't know). Then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don't wanna lose the connection I have with my friend with benefits after breaking it off one day. help?

forgive my English (not my 1st language) so there was this extremely attractive guy and we liked each other since we saw each other and knew that. we talked very formally occasionally. he used to find ways to touch me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex and I talked for two hours last night, is that a good sign?

We dated for 3 years, but recently went to long distance. We broke up about two weeks ago and haven't really talked since. It was killing me more not to talk to him so I called and we talked for two hours and I even...

hedgehog80

Xper 3 Age: 37

We dated for 3 years, but recently went to long distance. We broke up about two weeks ago and haven't really talked since. It was killing me more not to talk to him so I called and we

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Why won’t my ex leave me alone if he can’t treat me right or really want to be with me?

I (24) have known my ex (30) for a few years now he did not treat me right while we were together he disrespected me. constantly, lied, cheated, Broke up with me and Went back to his child’s mother 5 times, used me for...

Anonymous

(25-29)