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Search Results: did i turn him off
Is this guy just playing me?
We started off as friends, turned into friends with benefits. I admitted to having feelings and loving him. I thought for sure he'd shut that down and tell me that he doesn't feel the same and that we shouldn't see each...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does it seem like nothing can stay good in life?
I know we all go through ups and downs in life , but what do you do if your life is more down than good? Yea we can keep trying to pull ourselves back up hoping for the better , but how can you keep pulling yourself back...
Did you ever see the moon so massively huge, it looked like it was right next to us?
Back in the early to mid `70's, we were in the alley just after dinner playing Kickball when one of us spotted this ABSOLUTELY HUGE yellow and white "globe" way down at the end of the alley at least 4 blocks away!! It...
FunkyMonkee
Master Age: 58 He ghosted me, went back to his toxic ex, and nearly 2 years later I still feel stuck. How do I move on?
I’m 19F, about to start my second year of college, but I’ve been emotionally stuck since high school. In junior year, a guy I liked was too shy to ask for my number, so he got it through a friend. We clicked quickly, but...
EllieT05
Xper 1 Age: 20 Why do guys try to get a girl jealous when he's genuinely into her?
Every guy I've been with tried getting me jealous but it doesn't actually get me jealous... I just get turned off from the situation and move on. I'm not gonna look like a dummy for you
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Anonymous
(30-35) Okay so story time, PLEASE GIVE ME ANY KIND OF REAL ADVICE-On how to judge someone and know their intentions?
I started talking to this guy who trauma-dumped on day one and said “I love you” by day three. He began buying me things every day—food, clothes, even flower plants—despite not having a job and living off an allowance. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people change the subject or go silent when I bring up my mom?
My mom abandoned my dad, brothers and I when I was nine years old. She wanted to have her own life and quit being a mom. We were devastated. Dad was broken. He flat out told us that he is filing for divorce. I blessed dad...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you get ahead in life if you get knocked down at every turn?
I started from nothing Worked my ass off at school. Got a degree Moved away. Got a job. I make some money but it’s not nearly enough to justify the pain. And now my Dad is retiring and has no savings and no...
Anonymous
(25-29) Every woman I've dated thinks I'm incompatible with them or put off by me being high functioning autistic individual?
Despite being able to make them laugh , feel comfortable & enjoy themselves on the day of seeing them , they still didn't want to settle on me. I've had them kiss & cuddle me on first & second dates but it turned out to...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you think about site requests to turn off your adblocker?
You know, those websites that immediately want you to turn off your ad blocker, and either won't let you see their content unless you do, or let you see it but shame you, like saying "so you won't support us?" or the...
msc545
Master Age: 39 Women, what is more attractive: 5'9 with muscles or 6'0 and skinny?
Assume their faces are equally attractive. And when I say muscles I don't mean roiding body builder because I know that turns off women generally. When I say muscles I mean toned and athletic with hard biceps and chest.
Recovering_Romantic
Xper 1 Age: 31 I looked through my girlfriend’s phone and found something that made me suspicious. Is this cheating or am I overreacting?
I didn’t want to invade her privacy, but something felt off. Saw messages that seemed flirty or secretive. No proof, but my gut says something’s up. Has anyone else caught something like this? How did you handle it? Did...
Anonymous
(36-45) Have you ever thought your partner was cheating just because they started acting weird but it turned out to be something totally different?
This actually happened to me. My boyfriend became distant texting less, zoning out when we were together, just off. I was convinced he was cheating. My mind went to the worst places. Turns out… he was super stressed at...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are briefs really a turn off for girls?
I'm talking about good quality designer briefs with a flattering cut, not old fashioned white y-fronts. And on someone who is in reasonably good shape. I feel like girls want to see boxer briefs, so I mostly own these,...
6ftOwl
Xper 1 Age: 38 Do you remember the first dish you ever cooked? Was it good?
The first time I tried to make something wasn't a dish. I was confused about how to turn off the stove. Yeah, I was THAT stupid/clueless and I ended up making a very terrible chai because I had no idea how much water...
m Doctors are just in it for the money NOT because they actually care? Does that make you sick?
Doctors and nurses don’t actually care about people, they care about money over all. Look what this disgusting pos “dr” said in regards to Matthew Perry being treated for anxiety and depression They killed Matthew and...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to deal with Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style?
We broke up 3 times. 2 year relationship down the drain. I felt we did love each other. In my gut though I feel this is it. It’s been a week since the breakup. He unadded me on snap then quickly readded me and turned his...
Zabuza
Xper 5 Age: 23 Girlfriend’s constant complaints and hot and cold attitude is putting me off. What should I do?
We’re in the early stages of a relationship. Lately we’ve been having an issue where she’s been acting hot and cold. She’s a bit uptight and serious and I’m more easygoing. We’ve been having this constant back and forth...
Silver89
Xper 4 Age: 37 