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If you’ve been following me by now you should know I get tons of guys, guys approach me all the time, I do nothing special, but girls who say themselves that they have been told by people that they are attractive still struggle with guy attention and barely get approached by them? Even girls I know that I think are pretty don’t get as much attention as me? Why?

Lately, myself and some friends close to me have noticed that 2 work colleagues seem to have an unhealthy obsession with me.

Largely I keep myself to myself, and only engage in polite conversation with both males - as I do with everyone else. However, one of the guys has now attempted to make physical contact with me but touching my hand, when I was sitting eating lunch one day. I was sitting myself and he came to chat to me and touched my hand when he was conversing with me. So I decided to avoid him. Then a few days ago, he was seen spying on me from through a book shelf while pretending to place books on the shelf. As soon as I noticed he was crouched down there looking at me, I removed myself from the area. My friend told me he was then running around looking for me.

As for the other guy, he manages personal items that are ordered into our work place. The items should be placed on a reservation shelf for us to pick up - but he actually keeps my items so that I have to actually approach him to pick them up. He also makes comments when I try to collect resources from other collection points - insisting that I should be picking items up form his collection point. It’s getting tedious to be honest. And others are noticing.

Then, the other night I was approached by an odd guy dressed in a suit who started inquiring about my hobbies, personal life and romantic life. He was waiting to catch the same train as me and smiled when he saw me. He then approached me and said ‘sorry I hope you don’t mind me approaching you, but you look quite cute’ I just said thanks but felt quite awkward. He then sat with me for the 20 min train journey home, but never actually asked my name - which is weird. I feel as if he already knew my name and was looking specifically for me to get details. I’m inclined to believe he was hired to approach me by one of those 2 males. It was a seriously odd encounter.

I always figured that women that are beautiful don’t have to put in effort to find a man. That they have it easiest when it comes to dating. And get suitors knocking on their door. This has not been my reality, which must mean I’m not attractive lol. I hear of women of all appearances that speak of men approaching them and wanting to date them. However, this doesn’t happen often for me at all and if it does, it’s generally by a guy that is creepy or weird. Am I generalizing or is there validity to what I’m saying?