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Just started talking to this girl at my job. Been like 2 weeks roughy. So, It all started with her calling my phone at work to let me know my customer was here (I work in sales). The next day I text her to let her know I sold 5 cars she set an appt on. She texted back I texted back and she didn't say anything. The next day on Saturday, I was sitting by her and she said she didn't feel like texting me back because I have an android and she's gotta an iPhone blah blah. So, I said, "wow you're just not gonna say anything because of that". She's like, " Buy an iPhone". I told her to buy me one etc. Then asked her if she's got Snapchat? She's like yeah. So, I unlock my phone, open the app and she puts her username in and adds me. We talked a little on Snapchat. Now Thursday of this week, I find out she's gotta boyfriend she's been with for 3~ years. And HE LIVES WITH HER AND HER MOM. I'm like wtf? I heard from some employees they broke up. But, her dad works at the same place we do and he walked up to her and said her bfs cars leaking oil, etc. Now today, I asked her what she was doing over the weekend. She said she was going to hang out with her friends. I asked her if she's ever been to Chicago (the city). She said no. I then asked if she's ever been to any of the museums there. She said no but she wants to go to Shedd aquarium. I then said, "your boyfriend doesn't take you places"? She said no he works Monday-Saturday 8-6. I was testing her so I said, bet let's go. She said okay but not in my car. I was shook. So, I asked her again if she's being forreal? She like shyly said "yeah"... I'm lost.. Is she into me? Just being nice or tired of her boyfriend? Wtf I'm lost

Me and my girlfriend have been official since November of 2021. We started talking May 30th, 2021. I already knew her before because we used to be co workers and i have had her on social media for years but she always had a boyfriend so never really talked to her like that, I always had small crush on her.

About a month that passes by and at this point I probably hung out with her about 8-10 times. She invites me over to her new place for a little get together with friends to celebrate her new spot, everything seems normal but then another guy walks in the house and her mood sorta switches on the spot. At this point she dosen't pay much attention to me and just sorta haves me there looking stupid. I start to get jealous because this guy was making small comments to her that make it seem like he was trying to flirt with her. I start to get upset and I tell her im leaving. I was expecting her to ask me to stay over like she did the night before but she didn't. The whole night after I left i couldn't stop thinking that she's probably going to sleep with that guy but I just let it go.

Fast forward about 4 months and things are getting more serious. I decide to ask her about that night and she denies that she did anything it for a few days then one day she said "Okay, we just kissed but that was it" She started begging me so i giver her another chance. I don't believe her but i just let it go.

Another 2 moths or so pass by and we are now official. It is around November now and I ask her again, i make it seem like someone told me and I ask her again? She starts crying and she says YES. My heart literally sank. Ever since then we have fought dozens of times, we are still together but I just can't forget that night. That is the root of all the problems we now have, it has gotten mentally draining , We have gotten cops called on us because of how bad it gets when we argue. I know we weren't official but the way she did it just bothers me.