I dated a guy in high school, we always kept in touch so often even though we both have always been in other relationships. He always contacted me for sex, at times I ignored him for a long periods of time. We lately became closer, then he puts up a wall and don't answer calls or texts then all sudden he pops back up with excuses that was busy of which I now only takes a second to reply or call or least keep communication open. I found out he recently had his 1st child by another I ask him if he had a baby he lied and said no, so then when we talked again I ask him why he lied that I saw him with a baby and girlfriend he said he was gonna tell me about it and that he wasn't trying to have a baby however I don't get why he lied. He tells me that I am especial to him, and he always want some of my goodies and that we been around one another for so many years so hat must mean something and said he has love and care for me, then all sudden he ghosts again, then he comes back again with excuses saying been going through things, busty with work but also mentions about the things he did fun with guy friends, he always promise to do something special with me and for me besides sex but that never happened, the sex doesn't feel or be just sex, its passion in it, kissing, love songs played and all. I don't understand what he is thinking its like one min i feel an connection or don't understand why I am risking my relationship for him but I have become emotionally attached, I feel he should be honest and not treat me these ways off and on, he got jealous when I had a child with who I'm with, its like he doesn't want me with anyone but never ever tried to have a real relationship with me. Its like I miss him want to know he is ok but he can out the blue not contact me for weeks or months, he go from texts daily, good morning beautiful to nothing at all for a long time
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He also likes me to send him pics of me and also nude pics
