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The guy in question is me and at this point, I think that this is really gonna hurt my chances. It seems that most girls are turned off by a guy with no experience and would rather be with a man who knows how to be in a relationship and how sex works. Another reason is it seems that there’s a concern that he’s either gonna become super clingy since she’s his first partner, or he’s gonna move on fast since he’ll want to make up for lost time. I’ve also had the feeling that if a girl has to show a guy how a relationship works or what to do in bed, it permanently emasculates him in her eyes. Even after he learns, she can never see him as a masculine figure since she had to teach him these things. Now there is a reason why I ended up in this situation, but it seems like the reason for it doesn’t matter most of the time and that girls just take it at face value and will write off a guy with no experience and the reason why he’s that way makes no difference.

I've been talking to a woman I met through work for a year, but increasingly since Christmas. We went 2 weeks of not talking when we had a disagreement after I asked to meet her a few months back and she said no. But after 2 weeks she reached out to me and we stated talking again. She has a strong history of cutting ties with people if they upset her, so I felt special when she reached out

I've liked this woman instantly since the first time we spoke on the phone. I'm sure there was attraction from her in the early days, but I was too afraid of making a move, so we became friends. I really like her on a personal level, she's amazing. I think I've said enough for her to know I like her without me directly telling her. My god, now I've met her, I think she's the most stunningly beautiful woman I've ever seen

We talk a few times a week, and our calls are at least hour. We are very supportive and caring of each other

Todays her birthday, and I am in her town for other reasons. Last night I told her I had a present for her and if she wanted, I could take it to her, but told her saying no was ok. She told me to take it this morning. This is the first time we've met in person. She's also moving house today so was packing her car when I arrived and she asked me to help. The conversation wasn't flowing as it usually does, it was awkward. She didn't really make any eye contact either. As we were loading the car, she asked if I had to go. I said no, but then she asked again once the car was loaded. She said she was cold and stood with her arms folded and looking into the distance, so I took this to mean she wanted me to go. I said good luck. She said thanks for the gift, and that she'd catch me later. For this she did look me in the eye. She was always smiling but I'm not sure if it was real

I'm feeling deflated now. I had butterflies, and was hoping sparks would fly

What do you think was going through her head. Does she reservedly like me, or was there no interest at all

So this girl was in my class last year we were good friends and we would call and talk all the time at first I didn't like her. I also told her who I liked and it was never her until I slowly fell in love with her then asked her out. She said we can give it a try awkwardly and then I said or we can just be friends. So we stayed friends we talked less each time we did it was a bit awkward she even told her dad I liked her. Then one say I called or boring on call and we stopped calling that was like 4 months ago we still talk in school a lot more each time she sees me she'll come up and say hi and we'll talk we walked to school together and sometimes she teases about liking her. We're still good friends she calls me one of her best friends she always come to me for help. Most of the time I'm stil in love with her so I always help her usually after a girl rejects me I just move on but I really love her. Recently each time she sees me she'll like poke my arm or chest and try starting conversations with me I'm trying to move on but she makes me fall in love again do easily. She said herself a couple months ago she doesn't like me like like like me. Each time we talk in the night and we're done she'll says ILY goodnight and get mad when I don't say it back now she says I love you good night all typed out she's been doing it a lot recently and I reposted a video on tiktok that said I miss talking to the girl I always talked to she saw the repost and has been more friendly and closer to me recently and during class a couple weeks ago I had a green wristband she asked if she could have it and 2 days later she ran up to me like look spade look in wearing your bracelet and she keeps poking and touching me more and touching my hair sometimes I have stuff in my hair and she just like grabs it out and today during class she was sitting in front of me and wraps both of her legs around my right leg and when I tried getting up she kept staring at me I just don't if she likes me

How do you feel about who should make the first move?