So there's a lot to this. We are coworkers and she had a boyfriend She knew how I felt from almost day one. I didn't hide it and we got along great. She still wanted to be my friend and we still talked and even hung out. One night we hung out and we were together for like twelve hours. Things were going great and Towards the end no she was being very flirty with me and I didn't make a move because I promised her I wouldn't before we hung out. That was the one condition for us hanging out, plus we were high. Anyway like 2 days later she wanted to cut all communication outside of work. I asked her about it in person because I'm a very upfront guy and she told he it's because she has a boyfriend and realized she likes me a lot more than what she should. Anyways we got past it kinda. My feeling never changed and honestly I won't lie, after she told me that I pushed and I shouldn't have and it made things hard for the both of us. Anyway her boyfriend cheated on her so they broke up. She is super pretty and honestly in my eyes the greatest thing to walk along the planet and I couldn't wait to long and I asked her out on a date and she said yes. she broke it off before our first date. She told me that she is still hurting over her ex and isn't near ready for a relationship which she knows I want and that she thought she liked me but has a hard time seeing me as more than just a friend now. I don't know what to do at this point because I haven't been so sure of anything in my entire 31 years of life. We have so much in common. I did push things and I feel like that's what made things change for her. I didn't give her the time to begin with and normally I would just give her time but she said she needs me to understand me and her will never happen and I just feel like that's truly the nail in the coffin and I messed things up beyond repair. She still looks at me with the eyes of someone who has feelings and still smiles and jokes with me and it's so hard. Is there any hope
She rejected me but I can't get over her? Girls advice please?
