Search Results: insecure about looks

How do you console your partner about their phisical insecurities?

My wife used to be very insecure about her legs, in her opinion they were too thin and stick-like even though she likes wearing skirts. I would often remind her that I found them beautiful and that if people's eyes fell...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

My boyfriend checks out women in front of me and tells me things like ‘she’s hot’ or ‘she’s pretty’. I get upset. Am I overreacting?

We’re both in our 20s and been together for more than 8 years. A little on him: He’s a very blunt and honest person. He believes in saying what is on his mind irrespective of what the person thinks, especially if they are...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Experiences on dating men with a very low self-esteem?

Hi all, I'm a straight woman in 30s and 2 weeks ago I started dating an ex collegue of mine, we used to work for the same company 7 years ago but we never actually met each other. We matched on Bumble and that's how it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Help! what vibe do I give off? I am very insecure?

I’m very insecure I’m 25 and 5”2 and I feel so inadequate. I am jealous of men and women. Especially white tall men and women that are good looking. I wish I were them. What can I do help my brain and heart hurt just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is calling my girlfriend sexy in a Christian relationship bad?

Ever since I’ve been with my girlfriend anytime she sends a picture all I say is she looks nice and looks good. She’s very insecure and she recently sent a picture of her which was very sexy but I couldn’t say that...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Felt fine 1 minute next, ugly?

Tonight I was getting ready to go to the gym with the girls. I put some music on and was feeling good. Then I started to do my hair, and that was when it all went downhill. You could say I was having a 'bad hair day', but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I approach my gym crush?

I’ve got a big crush on this gym trainer! I've been noticing him for about a month now, and I think he's noticed me too. He looks extremely attractive but also a bit shy or insecure. Whenever I catch him looking at me, he...

WhyNotaskSomeone

Xper 4 Age: 24

I can't explain it... why am I so insecure and envious?

I am quite good-looking, I am fit, I'm intelligent. I have my achievements and I know I can't be good at everything. I just tend to run away from situations in which I'm not good enough. I can't explain why I ended up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Is it true you can do things on impulse without intent to hurt feelings?

i had about 2 situations where I caught my boyfriend swiping up on a girls story and voting on girls ig polls. The first time I told him he needs to stop. Now I see it again I broke up with him. He says he thinks he does...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Mixed Signals from this guy I like - Am I interpreting it wrong?

This older guy I like, has been sending mixed signals. Well according to my friends (observers). First of all, he has a girlfriend - long distance relationship - he sees her about twice a year. Anyway, we work together....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I have never been with woman , I'm 21 I just think I have phimosis even tho it doesn't hurt, I can pull it over partially, any tips, No urologist pls?

I'm not like bad looking or sum I'm just very insecure about THAT I CAN'T pull it over, Its so clean i take care of it, i wish there was something that could like stretch it. Ty

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Why am I flustered around the girl I am really into? How do I stop embarrassing myself? How do I stop overthinking?

I am handsome, I go to the gym, I am intelligent and I know that. Yet I am so insecure around a certain girl because I find her so beautiful in many ways and it's the first time I want to date to marry. I had more...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think my guy friend is projecting, how should I approach him about it?

So first my friend is about 2-3 years younger than me (I’m 24 he’s 21) we used to be coworkers but now we work at other jobs now. A quick little background about him, he used to be bullied and picked on a lot by girls in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is this a hint from him that he just wants to be friends?

He shares very personal things with me, including his feelings, very personal stuff guys usually would never admit I think like how his ex girlfriend was mentally abusive, and writes lengthy texts always. However, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm insecure about my thighs. Do they look attractive?

Hi Guys, I have been told that i have big thighs and i should tone them down. What do you think about them and where do i need to improve?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What do I do next with my friend?

I have a friend. For my bday we went out she bought me drinks. I was having relationship problems with my ex ( we’re both bi ) and she told me I shouldn’t be with an insecure guy. I asked her why she hadn’t flirted with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m a girl with really narrow hips and I’m insecure.. do men mind?

I’m a 34 inch waist and 44 inch hips.. kind of thick. My boyfriend says he doesn’t mind because I have a nice butt but I feel like my structure just looks like a guy, it also doesn’t help that I lift

Anonymous

(25-29)