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Taken from another post; I said women seem more often to have more personality flaws and awful traits among them than men do and collectively act worse than men, because men generally can't get away with being awful in society as much as women can. Almost NO ONE ever calls out bad women on their sh*t and the few that do get labeled "misogynists and incels" in attempts to shame and silence them.

If any men can get away with being awful people, they're generally rich and powerful men, where as pretty much ANY woman can get away with being a horrendous person and society, feminists, white knights, and simps will always be there to defend her.

Do you believe this to be true or not? Why or why not?

Black male's experience in college

" Back in college I’ve seen the sexiest Asians just throw themselves heavily at white guys. It was a surreal experience to say the least. I thought I had some sort of favoritism being an exotic, good looking black guy.

I never dated at all in high school, so had no idea what to expect in freshmen year, but I remember the first girls I ever talked to were Asian & they wanted nothing to do with me. I had a white girl that I befriended and at my first big social circle, she was my wing women & everything she told me to say seemed really good. I had no idea how to interact with women myself but the Asian girls still seemed just… indifferent, like they had no reaction to me & it wasn’t fun. Everyone else I encountered freshmen year was extremely social & fun to talk to.

It was probably because they knew I was talking to them with romantic intent & didn’t want to lead me on or had no interest. Then I asked a close white friend and he told me that Asian girls don’t like black guys, they are obsessed with whites, don’t take it personally. Some time later next semester, I got semi close to an Asian girl whose a friend of my best friend.

When we all hung out, she talks about the little things her boyfriend does that she doesn’t like but she gets very gushing about him anyway. Fast forward to sophomore second semester we were all hanging out in the student game room… she reads her phone text & begins crying & runs to the bathroom. My friend and I share a concerned face. Never knew what happened but I thought that this boyfriend must be a real catch. Until I saw his pictures and he was a very chubby, very average or a bit below average white guy. This girl was a 5ft Asian girl with perfect features everywhere, and had a very bubbly, love-able personality. Fast forward 2 years later, they break up. It’s revealed the dude she gave so much love to saw her as a fetish to release all his desires upon."

(Featuring some of my friends, in art form.)

When visually lay eyes upon you for the first time, is it a good First Impression or a bad First Impression?

And is their perception of you accurate, or is it a negative stereotype of what they assume you to be?

I won't tell you how many obnoxious bad things I get or how many stereotypes or backhanded compliments people make when they see me. They pretty much never get a single thing right about my personality or who I am.

For all the single and straight ladies:

There's a guy you meet online. He's everything you've ever wanted in a man's personality. Checks every single box. However, when you meet for the first time, there's something that makes you pause and you consider it to either nearly be a dealbreaker or a complete dealbreaker. Everything else about him is tolerable/close enough besides this one thing.

What is the physical trait that makes you instantly lose attraction to him?

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman that has never had a romantic bond with a guy before, meaning no previous boyfriend or first love, especially from her youth.

I am wanting to us to be each other's first real relationship.

I have lost 20 pounds so far. I have been weightlifting. I have broad shoulders and a strong upper body. I am just needing to lose probably 30 more pounds and I will be more decent then.

I have my own apartment for now. Although, I am recently unemployed and looking to go back to school and get on disability in the meantime.

My personality lacks. I am often insecure and don't know how to joke much. I can laugh and be in a good mood however.

Also, do you think I can find a decently attractive woman that meets what I am looking for?