Can you know well a person in just little time in order to committ soon in time or you do need time for that? Knowing that WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT, we have different attitudes, personalities, characters, behavior, that we may or not like from the other person.
Let me put you an example and tell me what kind of relationship this is:
I have a male cousin who is now 48yrs, he has 2 kids (19 and 16). He had been separated (not legally divorced yet) for like 12 years now. The son lives with him and the daughter with her mom. The guy after separation he dated a few ladies here and there and anyway the ladies he had dated after separation never been really formal or committed. Then 6 years ago, he met a lady (12 years younger) and lets say is the longest relationship he had been with so far.
At this moment I dont know if he still dates her or he is just having fun with her even after 6 yers of supposedly being together as a couple (the term couple I doubt applies for him) At the beginning of his relationship Im sure he treated her like a girlfriend, they dated often, etc The years went by and if even if he was with her, this cousin never ever introduced her to the family or even mention he had a girlfriend, possibly because for him his relationship was not formal (even with years of still dating her).
He was still supposedly.. cont
The few few times this cousin brought his "girlfriend" in person was in 2 Christmas Eve dinners at his
The guy at this moment we suspect he is no longer dating her, but I was told he sees her only from time to time but he stil calls her "his girlfriend", after 6 years?