Why do people expect me to change in a negative way when I grow up?

[Apulu_Imback]

Naturally, my personality is a positive one. I'm an optimistic person and I try my best to stay on positive side.

I have already passed that immature and hatred phase. I'm not going to barge but I am mature enough to understand that there is nothing in sticking to hate. It must seem like a joke to everyone because I'm still a kid but does my biological age really tells about my mental age?

Honestly I'm tired of people trying to convince me that I will change a lot (in negative way) when I grow up. Not only me but other teenagers who are positive like me also go through this. Is it important that everyone have to change?

I already have plans for my future and even back up plans incase anything goes wrong. Basically I have an idea of how I will spend my rest 60-70 years of my life. I am prepared for the worst. I know actually how negative world can be because I'm one those who is exposed to the dark side of the world. I wish I wasn't.

When I will say things like "I don't hate anyone" "I believe love is more expensive than money because you can't buy it" "Everyone deserves fair chance" And all then I will get replies like "Wait till you are an adult" "You are still a kiddo so shut up" "Life isn't a fairytale you are expecting it to be".

I know there will be times when life will slap me so hard that I would just want to eliminate myself. I know that there will be times when I will doubt my existence. When I will feel like I don't have a heart with feelings. But those who are strong to face it can only put themselves together and continue life after sticking back their heart with positive glue.

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1 y

There are two types of people, one who grow up from a bad situation only to become heartless people. They basically loose themselves after series of events that happen with him. They don't want to get themselves back together anyways. One who grow up from bad situation to be stronger than before and have the most beautiful heart ever. They actually learn from what happened and ate brave enough to move on and paint the blue (depression) of the past in white (peace).

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1 y

I believe I will learn and move on because that's how I'm raised up and it's just set inside me to do so. Why always demotivate positive youngsters instead of motivating them because their mentality is actually what a good attitude should be?

[Butterfly07]

I completely feel you!! My brain has always been... more mature.. I guess... then other kids my age! Don't conform to the world and keep your head up! Stay happy and optimistic!! When I see really happy and joyful people out in public, their happiness spreads to me! People LOVE joyful people even if they think they don't. SO don't listen to the people who tell you, that you will change. If you know who you are then stick with it and don't change for anybody!!

[Apulu_Imback]

Exactly! Glad there are people who understand me!

[litty]

It's because misery loves company. They are projecting on to you as if they know how the world works. And it makes them happy when they see another person struggling because it only reaffirms their beliefs.

I had someone tell me I was going to jail the following year and break up in my relationship soon. Yeah, they would've loved it if that happened.

[Apulu_Imback]

That's really sick if that's the motive to do so.

[mark000h]

You shouldn't change your personality, but unfortunately, as we get older and more jaded and damaged by the realities of the world, you, like all of us, probably will.

[Apulu_Imback]

It's not necessary that if all change then I will change too. I know how the world works. As I said I have been exposed to the dark side believe it or not.

[mark000h]

It's good if you are able to remain an optimist. A lot of people are negative after many negative experiences. You should not listen to others and just be yourself.

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes I will be, thank you!

[Iron_Man]

It’s good to help people out in the world and be positive Dont surround yourself with negative people

[Apulu_Imback]

It's just that they would come and rant about these stuff.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t rant back with them bring a positive experience back to your friends be different from them

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes, thank you!

[Iron_Man]

You’re a great girl keep up the good work in life

[Apulu_Imback]

Thank you :)

[Iron_Man]

You are so welcome 😊

[Tstrbrainer]

Cebause people don't know what you are or what you have been through.

Since you are 13, I guess these people are talking about the hormonal changes you will go through

[Apulu_Imback]

Maybe

[Tstrbrainer]

It's likely about hormonal changes.

As your body develops you will obviously go through mood swings, wanting more space, freedom etc

[Apulu_Imback]

Yeah

[Tstrbrainer]

That's probably what they are talking about.

[EdwinLivingston_]

Are you really 13? Your thoughts seems matured. I used to eat sand when i was 13

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes I'm 13 only but trust me even though my thinking process in such things is really mature, I'm still notorious and childish lol.

[Sabretooth]

by default--this world will hate and and try to turn you.

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes...

[SaVaGe22]

This little girl have fire 🔥 inside.

[Apulu_Imback]

Thank you :) !

[SaVaGe22]

I advised you little princess
Stop reading quote's this few liners quotes won't take you anywhere in life.

[Apulu_Imback]

Which quotes you are talking about?

[Cubus]

I believe you won't change for worse

[Apulu_Imback]

I would be disappointed by myself if I do so

[eagle1951]

interesting. grow up the way you think is for you

[Apulu_Imback]

Thanks

[eagle1951]

np!!