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I just had another woman lie to me about wanting to meet up for a date but kept making excuses at the last second to bail. This went on for a few weeks.

But she kept texting me to chat. And we texted a lot. It was clean chat too and not sexting.

I was patient at first but finally after three weeks I said “I need to know if we are going to meet up or not” (politely). She said she definitely wanted to meet up and then when I said “okay can you let me know a good time” and she went silent. She only said “happy 4th” and I said happy 4th back but then I deleted her number. Haven’t heard from her sense.

Anyway she just wanted virtual/text attention for validation despite telling me in the beginning she would be interested in friends with benefits. Yes I met her on dating app but we were both verified and she was local. I am a bit older so I was patient at first. But it turned out to be a huge waste of time and she had to lie about wanting to meet up just because she didn’t want me to stop texting her.

But this crap happens a lot to guys nowadays. Just curious if women have any lingering guilt/regrets about doing this to them later. I doubt they do tbh.

I’m living every man’s dream. I’m the one who got away because she fucked everything up, now she desperately wants to come back.

I got played pretty hard by a girl i really liked (she went after another guy that I “don’t need to worry about”) and then a year later I inherited a 200 acre ranch and now I’m building a house on it. She would always tell me how much she would love to leave the city and live on a ranch/farm/acreage. She got word of this (she probably stalks my IG) and now her friend told me she regrets everything and wants me back. I’m obviously not ever giving her the time of day again, and that brings me so much joy in my heart.

Anyway, Im just curious, what would you do? And is this the right move?

I work with a girl who I find attractive. I'm not really pursuing because I feel like she's not interested. I have noticed that when I'm talking to her, her eye contact is fairly normal and we have regular conversations but when I'm looking at something I've noticed in my peripheral that she stares me and I've had people tell me she stares. Is she interested and maybe a little nervous or just curious? I ask because I'm a little confused and also don't want to waste my time if there's not really any potential.