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I couldn't pursue my crush for two years because of workplace consequences. But we would jam and play music together every week. In June, I told him I was leaving. A while later, he invited me to his music recital. About a week later, we said bye and I told him I would be at his recital. I waited anticipatedly and anxiously. For some reason I felt like this recital would be a turning point for us. I bought a big gift and I just waited for the day. Sometime last month I sent him an email but didn't receive a reply, even though he usually replied. I don't have his number but he has mine. Today was finally the day. After his first song, we got to go to the stage to hand flowers and gifts to the performers, so I gave him the large gift I had prepared. He seemed happy/surprised I'd come. Maybe he didn't need me to be there... Once the show was all over, he came to my seat to chat with me. It seems there was some miscommunication about my leaving the workplace, and he thought I'd simply disappeared. Clearly, he'd also missed my email. His family then came to us, and I greeted them. His parents, grandmother, and brother (who also performed.) I wanted to talk to him more, but I didn't want to disturb family time. We bumped into each other outside later again, and we kind of kept looking at each other as we left in different directions, him with his family. Just now I emailed him the pics from the performance, writing that he was great and looked cool. Sadly, I don't have his number. How am I supposed to proceed from here? I don't even know if he thought of me at all till today.

I’ve known him for around 8 years. Up until the beginning of this year, I’ve been single. Never really wanted to be in a relationship etc etc.

I am 28 and he is 40. We have always flirted, he’s always been somewhat abrupt towards me in front of his wife, when the flirting has got too much and it’s getting intense he will stop himself and say “I’m married”. He’s always displayed jealousy when I interact with another man. He’s complimented me, he is always staring at me. He has said if he wasn’t married he would take me out etc. One time, he was talking about me in front of me and he said “she likes Italian men but I’m married”

He’s always encouraged me to meet a guy and settle down. However, he does not seem to like the fact that I’m in a serious relationship. He might say he’s “happy for me” but his facial expression and actions say the polar opposite. He is constantly giving my partner death stares, always ignores him (or if he has to say hi, it’s very icily polite), always asks me about him trying to gage if we are still together, when I told him I was buying a house he got very excited and happy - and then asked if my boyfriend would be living with me. I said yes, and his smile disappeared straight away and he became abrupt.

Why is he acting like a child? My partner thinks he’s obsessed.