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This is a question that I want answered bc I think my friend is about to make the biggest mistake of his life. Whether it's for the bad it doesn't matter, I don't judge. It's how you are as a parent that matters, despite the bad. But that aside, what changed regarding your communication, time together, love life, social life, finance.

So to begin with I felt kinda sorry for him because he was in a car accident, ended up partially paralysed and his wife left him.

However, he later told me he’d had at least two other accidents where he’d been driving about 100mph. The 3rd one happened because he hit a tree driving at 120mph, which caused him to be wheelchair bound. This was just after the birth of his 4th child about 4 years ago. So immediately I just think it’s selfish that you’d risk your life like that knowing you have a wife and 4 children that you could potentially leave behind.

Now he’s in the process of divorce, he’s told me all about how she’s been toxic and deliberately damaged his car a few times. He also told me she’d said she wishes he’d died in the accident one of the times they were arguing. And she also voiced she wished she could sleep with a celebrity. She also told him that one of their kids wasn’t his.

For me, all of that immediately then put me off because it sounds like there’s been toxicity in that relationship, but I wonder if he put so much pressure on her that she snapped. I’ve tried to suggest that he should work things out with her as they were together 17 years and I think she maybe had attempted to fix things at one point, but he was too stubborn. He’s now adamant he’s ‘moved on’ and is wanting to date me, I’m beginning to wonder if it’s a ploy to rub things in her face and get back at her.

thoughts?

So I’ve been chatting to this guy that I met online, but I’ve never actually met him in person yet.

I just went on a solo holiday there, and on my first day he’d texted me to say he’d miss me and that he hoped I’d have a great time with a ❤️ and xxx. I didn’t respond to the message when I was away, but texted today to say I’d returned home. He immediately loved my response and told me he’d missed me and then asked what I did during my holiday.

I just don’t feel like I missed him, if anything the holiday was a welcome break from the immediate replying to every message I send. I thought I might have liked him to begin with but the over enthusiasm is feeling a bit too much.

He also has four kids and is in the middle of a separation from his wife, and they’re both bitter towards each other. Which in ways I also feel is too much. Am I wrong or terrible for feeling that way?