How to tell someone you don’t miss them…?

[Pink934]

So I’ve been chatting to this guy that I met online, but I’ve never actually met him in person yet.

I just went on a solo holiday there, and on my first day he’d texted me to say he’d miss me and that he hoped I’d have a great time with a ❤️ and xxx. I didn’t respond to the message when I was away, but texted today to say I’d returned home. He immediately loved my response and told me he’d missed me and then asked what I did during my holiday.

I just don’t feel like I missed him, if anything the holiday was a welcome break from the immediate replying to every message I send. I thought I might have liked him to begin with but the over enthusiasm is feeling a bit too much.

He also has four kids and is in the middle of a separation from his wife, and they’re both bitter towards each other. Which in ways I also feel is too much. Am I wrong or terrible for feeling that way?

You’re a bad person for feeling like this.

It’s not wrong to feel this way.

[Ask105]

Besides his wife and kids I've shown women to much interest like this also barley put in effort to realizing that women over think this and the last woman tried to say you didn’t seem interested in me so she's off to the next guy men are better off staying single there no one way he can win in your head because you’re trying to control him im turned off im turned on back in forth just say im not interested and just tell him the reason why because you’re getting ready to ghost him i literally did what he did recently because the stupid girl kept sending me videos and was like made me respond then i realized that's fake i said i missed her but i didn’t mean ! but she probably thought how you think i new she would never stick around anyway i always texted her that letting her no basically no way to win i advocate men dont text women no more phone call in person etc and prepare for them to leave do not get attached to an illusion

[Ask105]

Last thing your way off thinking is so close to every women nowadays its made me completely emotionless to women im like yeah i hear you girl definitely sure o look there's the wind blowing see you later

[ohsheeT]

This is your life. He has his own. If his life is something that you want then jump in to it. But if not. Dont its that simple.. there are 5 billion guys out there that you can dial into and you both want the same things

Just because you know him and he misses you doesn't mean you have to feel the same way he does towards you and. You dont have to tell him details if your vacation

[DishLady]

Separation... so he's not available...

You don't need to tell him anything. You're ridiculous for going with a guy who is STILL MARRIED and he's ridiculous for thinking anyone would miss him when he's being a fink to his whole family by seeking out the attention of you and possibly other little chippies.

[HollyK21]

You don’t have to tell him you didn't miss him.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't think you're wrong for feeling that way. As far as communicating the idea that you didn't miss him; you should be honest but tactful.

You shouldn't come out directly to say you didn't miss him, but you could tell him that instant replying and his overall enthusiasm has you feeling a little bit suffocated.

[Pink934]

I’m just quite independent and the instant replying is just not what I’m used to

[ProbablyClueless]

Honestly, you might even say that.

[eagle1951]

straight out hey I never missed you, were you gone

[Osborne775]

Straight to the point :)

[Twalli]

I have complete apathy regarding you.

[Pink934]

Why? Because I don’t miss a person…?

[Twalli]

It's more if you don't really care about them anymore. Apathy means you don't care.

[Pink934]

Oh sorry… I thought you were literally saying that to me 😂

[Twalli]

It's a nice way to say you don't miss them because you don't care anymore.

[Pink934]

Yeah I know what it means 👍🏻

[nl171]

Just be honest with him

[Staximus]

It's just some guy you talk to online

[In_Trance]

This whole thing is a colossal waste of time